Describe guys you know who will likely never hook up with a woman again

[chubbman]

Der Eisbar

 

[lakersfan45]

Can't blame a guy who has given up on hooking up.

Sex and sexual relationships can mentally, physically, and emotionally destroy a man. If u can live happily without it then kudos to u

I've been chained to the same woman for six years. But I used to fear the come down after having sex with a new woman when u question to urself "what have I done/have i done the right thing"

Also I always remember the line from say anything. Once you have sex with someone every time you see them no matter what u r saying or doing you will think to urself we had sex

 

[Smashandgrab]

He's probably just an introvert. I mean I'm pretty much the same. Except I dont live with my parents, and I have a job. Work pretty much all the time 6 to 7 days a week, but pretty much zero social life, and honestly no real desire for one. Havnt had a girlfriend in 8 or 9 years (few random hookups here and there thats it). Honestly no real desire for a girlfriend either.

Pretty much my life consists of work, save money, go to the gym, repeat. Take a couple weekends off a year and go snowboarding or camping and thats it. Some people just dont require a lot of social interaction. Doesnt mean they are a drug addict or homosexual or have mental health issues.

It could be an age thing to, the older I get (I'm 36 now) the less and less I desire to be thrust into social situations where I'm supposed to have the "time of my life". Or spend all night making small talk and pretending to care about something I really don't. Just seems like work to me.

Just my two cents. For what its worth.

We sound very similar. Although I've been single for five years and I miss dating. Not really into the social rigors involved in getting there though.

 

[The Clamburglar]

Whoever that dude is who made the thread about how he struck out with a bunch of chicks and tried to blame it on some poor white trash guy that gave his car-less bum of a friend a ride. That guy.

 

[livingdeadmoose]

Can't blame a guy who has given up on hooking up.

Sex and sexual relationships can mentally, physically, and emotionally destroy a man. If u can live happily without it then kudos to u

I've been chained to the same woman for six years. But I used to fear the come down after having sex with a new woman when u question to urself "what have I done/have i done the right thing"

Also I always remember the line from say anything. Once you have sex with someone every time you see them no matter what u r saying or doing you will think to urself we had sex

This is just sad. You talk as if sex is a bad thing.

 

[Pugilistic]

Can't blame a guy who has given up on hooking up.

Sex and sexual relationships can mentally, physically, and emotionally destroy a man. If u can live happily without it then kudos to u

I've been chained to the same woman for six years. But I used to fear the come down after having sex with a new woman when u question to urself "what have I done/have i done the right thing"

Also I always remember the line from say anything. Once you have sex with someone every time you see them no matter what u r saying or doing you will think to urself we had sex

This is a really unhealthy view of sex and relationships man.

 

[Matt M]

I know two people who are about 30 now and I'm 90% sure they will never have sex until the day they die.

 

[TCE]

My brother's childhood friend is still a virgin at 30.

All of his friends go out to party and get laid but he's socially awkward and can't hold a conversation with a girl.

All his friends even got him a hooker one time but he ended up just talking to her for like 40 minutes lol

I'm socially awkward too, doesn't stop me from getting laid. :icon_lol:

 

[Matt M]

A friend of mine is 32 and over 200 lbs. She can be socialable but she has a lot of insecurities on account of her appearance. She also believes in pre-marital abstinence on account of her religion. She's never dated.

I have a good friend who's 30 and he was HUGE a while back. He had a gastric band fitted and has lost a fair bit of weight, but I know he's never kissed or been with a girl and I think that's unlikely to change.

At least he'll have a less stressful life!

 

[TruthBeTold]

this thread is absolutely hilarious

 

[Gervinho]

I'm socially awkward too, doesn't stop me from getting laid. :icon_lol:

Me too, the trick for us socially awkward guys is about numbers. Hit on as many girls as possible. Even if we have 1% success rate, we have successful numbers

 

[I Am Legion]

The internet has made people lazy. I read an article that said there is a whole generation of people that are just too lazy or afraid to meet real people and just use internet porn for gratification. Mental Health issues aside, you have to live in the real world if you want real interactions.

 

[I Am Legion]

Me too, the trick for us socially awkward guys is about numbers. Hit on as many girls as possible. Even if we have 1% success rate, we have successful numbers

Also I have always found that when you do get on a roll, it becomes habit...you expect to hook up when you go out, instead of hoping you will. Confidence is huge, gotta go for what you want and if all else fails, thats what God made Chubsters.

 

[Kanster]

Nothing wrong with paying for sex especially if you're married.

Real talk.

 

[Gervinho]

Also I have always found that when you do get on a roll, it becomes habit...you expect to hook up when you go out, instead of hoping you will. Confidence is huge, gotta go for what you want and if all else fails, thats what God made Chubsters.

Men have become soft, some guys cant take rejection well. insecure guys are usually the ones who struggle the most. A real man shouldnt be bothered if a chick he just met dont like him.

 

[Omegaboy13]

Nothing wrong with paying for sex especially if you're married.

Real talk.

You dabble bro?

 

[Kanster]

You dabble bro?

Backpage.com my son.

 

[gnyg]

That was me. Socially awkward as fuck, couldn't get anything going on. Suddenly I met this girl and I've been with her three months now and lost my virginity...

I wasn't trying to say you were a porn addict or anything. Just that IMO even a normal amount of masturbating is bad for your sex life. When you cut it out all the sudden your sex life becomes super important and you just feel re-energized. Like it seriously feels like it rewires your brain. Give it a try. 2-3 weeks of nothing and it'll be like you just started liking girls again.

This is interesting. I've stopped the amount of porn watched after getting a girlfriend. At times I gotta jerk off to porn. But if it stopping completely rewires your brain then I'm gonna stop completely watching porn. Bad habit that's for sure..

 

[MUSTKILL]

I know a group of guys I've labeled as "The Unfuckables"
Basically a large group of single men, all with the purpose of trying to get laid.
They usually travel in packs of 3 or more and hit up clubs/bars/events/social gatherings with the objective of getting phone numbers.

The problem is they come off so thirsty/desperate that it's hard to watch.
It's pathetic and painful, yet they keep doing the same thing over and over. It's like they can't tell when a girl isn't interested.
I've tried to help a few of them and take them under my wing, but it's become pretty useless as they're programmed a certain way to be an unfuckable.

A lot of them will never compromise who they are and feel women should cater to them.
These kind of guys are the worse as they feel like they're good enough to get any woman but yet go years without ever getting laid.
Do you guys have friends with giant egos but never get laid? It's border line delusional.

 

[Kirin]

It feels somewhat better to know that I'm not the only one.

A couple of years ago my wife at the time decided she no longer wanted to be married to me. Haven't been in a relationship since that. Don't have much of an interest in dating or sex. After that, I pretty much just focused on my career and jiujitsu.