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I despise the term alpha male - I can say with utmost veracity that the people who are concerned with being an "alpha" will almost assuredly never be one.
True. Every guy I have met who talks about manliness and "being a man" a great deal are people who are far from being paragons of masculinity. They're only hiding their insecurities with talk, while "real men" wouldn't give a shit about what others think and just do what they do.
I think the OP is a fun exercise, but I think none of it ultimately matters because standards of manliness varies from culture to culture and to individuals. I personally lean towards a Ron Swanson like character but I have a bias towards independence and self-sufficiency, and it is what I would like to be. I think gardening (growing my own food) and cooking are steps towards being more of a man, but where I'm from, people think I might as well be wearing a skirt.