I'm hoping Mayberry is the proper spot for this thread, so here it goes.
This is essentially just asking you guys how you cope with harsh break-ups and if you guys have any advice to get over it. I've been there before, but I'm more interested what you guys have to say.
My current situation is this:
We were going pretty strong for a while up until December, when some distance was happening between us and our nights together became less and more of with other people.
Just last week we decided to give ourselves some space and pretty well broke up, I kind of knew it was going to happen. Anyways, what really got me was today when I went to the bar with some friends. She was there with another one of my friends (that guy and I weren't that close BTW).
At the time I didn't think too much of it, since they had been friends since high school (she has a lot of guy friends). We decided to join groups and I sat with her, we were getting close.
Finally that guy asked who wanted to play darts, so she and I went up. We played for a while, all laughing. I was getting close with her and the guy didn't do or say anything. Went to the washroom, came back and saw them making out.
She told me they had begun dating, and "it didn't seem like a problem all night"...even though there was absolutely no indication and I had known these people for a long time. They even asked me earlier if I wanted to go to Las Vegas.
I did try to contact her a few times and even visited her at work during that week we broke, trying to prove myself a litte. However, she was distant and only returned one of the 4 or 5 texts I sent her. Even now I have no ambition to talk to them again, but it still hurts.
So, call me attn whore or whining or whatever, I just want to know how you guys have coped from some of your more harsher break-ups.
