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Confused by chick

cooks1 said:
Did you even make a move on the chick when you were out with her?

Nothing turns a chick off more than a guy that doesn't make a move. It's way, WAY better to make a move and get shot down than to not make a move.
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this goes both ways and with everything. sometimes you have to take a gamble and if it doesn't pay off, so what move onto the next.
 
frenzy said:
this goes both ways and with everything. sometimes you have to take a gamble and if it doesn't pay off, so what move onto the next.
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false.

always make a move if you're interested. seriously. who cares if it fails; she will know what you want. either that, or get friend zoned. I love when people get friendzoned...endless entertainment doe

or maybe truth. i don't think i really read your post.
 
KrazyKanadian said:
false.

always make a move if you're interested. seriously. who cares if it fails; she will know what you want. either that, or get friend zoned. I love when people get friendzoned...endless entertainment doe

or maybe truth. i don't think i really read your post.
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Honestly... and you're a good dude.

This tells me you know nothing about Women.
 
Bukowski82 said:
Honestly... and you're a good dude.

This tells me you know nothing about Women.
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i know lots about women, but little about relationships (cause relationships fucking suck).

seriously though, if you want to sleep with a woman, you make a fucking move. you trying to dispute this fact?!
 
KrazyKanadian said:
i know lots about women, but little about relationships (cause relationships fucking suck).

seriously though, if you want to sleep with a woman, you make a fucking move. you trying to dispute this fact?!
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Not at all, Bud. It's simply about what move you make... A move can be non-agressive or even nothing at all.

It's rare that I make a move on anyone and I do fairly well for myself.
 
Bukowski82 said:
Not at all, Bud. It's simply about what move you make... A move can be non-agressive or even nothing at all.

It's rare that I make a move on anyone and I do fairly well for myself.
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i never said anything about being aggressive, although i do find cholorform works the best. alls I said was you need to make a move, whatever that be (and that's for me).

also, different strokes for different folks. you have to play to your personality and be confident in whatever move you decide to make (or not make).

seriously though, in me saying you need to make a move....it's a lie. you gotta do what works for you. but if you have to ask on sherdog what you need to do to pick up a woman....it means you don't know shit so make a fucking move. (or use roofies/chloro rag)
 
did you buy her an ipad?? that shits like pussy kryptonite lol
 
Maybe you didn't show enough interest. If you tried to play Mr. Cool Guy, she might figure you aren't into her and move on. No girl worth your time will try to make you play games.

Unless you're into insecure chicks.

Then follow this guy's advice.

zackryder said:
back in college i was dating this girl who ive met through a friend of a friend. she was really cute but was a lil slutty (with some tats, think sorority party girl) we went clubbing a couple times and i took her out on 2 dates. the first date went really well, she was receptive and interested. we talked and drank. it was sweet

she goes to a college 10 hrs (drive) from the college i went to so I havent seen her in awhile. i talked/texted her a couple times between the first date and the second date.

after a couple of months, i drove up to see her. the second date went horrendous. there was no chemistry, she seemed disinterested and was on her phone alot. I was still an amateur with women @ the time so i didnt know about being alpha and the rules. i dropped her off @ her sorority sisters house after we grabbed dinner. she gave me a goodnite kiss & left. i felt lost & confused

how did so much change in the couple of months i didnt see her? i realized alot can change in a short period of time. i havent seen her since but i learned alot from this experience.

1. develop chemistry/joke/dynamics (negging) with the girl early on and avoid the friendzone. make the intentions clear that ur dating for a relationship/sex

2. long distance relationships hardly ever work. this has less to do with this story than another relationship i had before that. however, if 2 ppl love each other enuff and want to be tied down to each other (ie make sacrifices), then it can totally work

3. follow the rules. (alpha, confidence, eye contact, posture, kino, dont be clingy) always try to better urself and learn new things. the more interesting and experienced u r, the more women r gonna wanna be around u. nowadays, its supereasy to get almost any girl. its as chazz puts it in wedding crashers, its like fishing with dynamite.
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....negging? You still got shit to learn, playing games like a kid. Do you wear a big fuzzy hat too?
 
you're looking way into it. maybe she was just being friendly at first and then laid off once she was comfortable with you. we all act differently around people we just met and people we know well.

also, her being excited about you mentioning a concert? she's excited about the concert and doesn't care if she goes with you or a bum she barely knew back in high school.
 
KrazyKanadian said:
false.

always make a move if you're interested. seriously. who cares if it fails; she will know what you want. either that, or get friend zoned. I love when people get friendzoned...endless entertainment doe

or maybe truth. i don't think i really read your post.
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caveat: if you run in the same circles as one another. i know people who go for it still, but i can't find it in myself to brush off the potential disasters.
 
gave up on the chick but I fucked her older sister.
 
ask and you shall recieve
 
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^^ not bad, hope she told her little sis all about it as well.
 
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