Confused by chick

[johnyboy]

Also ya like every one has been saying u either acted to into her or she found someone else. Stop trying to talk to her she will come back around.

 

[Nnedd]

You need to somehow convey that you will go crazy on her ass while going down on her. Like literally that the butt region is super in play when your munching box. All chicks love that.

So if she can just pick up on that from an everyday conversation with you, that's the best. Some chicks are pretty much idiots and you just have to spell it out to them, "I will get all up in your butt with my face". Done deal most of the time

Perfect.


I laughed.


I like to think I give that vibe off.

 

[zackryder]

Yeah I pretty much just said fuck it. I was just a little confused by all of it honestly.

back in college i was dating this girl who ive met through a friend of a friend. she was really cute but was a lil slutty (with some tats, think sorority party girl) we went clubbing a couple times and i took her out on 2 dates. the first date went really well, she was receptive and interested. we talked and drank. it was sweet

she goes to a college 10 hrs (drive) from the college i went to so I havent seen her in awhile. i talked/texted her a couple times between the first date and the second date.

after a couple of months, i drove up to see her. the second date went horrendous. there was no chemistry, she seemed disinterested and was on her phone alot. I was still an amateur with women @ the time so i didnt know about being alpha and the rules. i dropped her off @ her sorority sisters house after we grabbed dinner. she gave me a goodnite kiss & left. i felt lost & confused

how did so much change in the couple of months i didnt see her? i realized alot can change in a short period of time. i havent seen her since but i learned alot from this experience.

1. develop chemistry/joke/dynamics (negging) with the girl early on and avoid the friendzone. make the intentions clear that ur dating for a relationship/sex

2. long distance relationships hardly ever work. this has less to do with this story than another relationship i had before that. however, if 2 ppl love each other enuff and want to be tied down to each other (ie make sacrifices), then it can totally work

3. follow the rules. (alpha, confidence, eye contact, posture, kino, dont be clingy) always try to better urself and learn new things. the more interesting and experienced u r, the more women r gonna wanna be around u. nowadays, its supereasy to get almost any girl. its as chazz puts it in wedding crashers, its like fishing with dynamite.

 

[themainman]

You need to gather more info. Invite her over, say you're making chicken and you want her to taste your blend of herbs and spices.

 

[Flemmy Stardust]

be like "hey girl, what's a thug gotta do around here to get dat pussy nam'sain?"

then change your identity.

 

[zackryder]

also another advantage that men have in following the rules is that b/c its been around for awhile & most men have access to it, most women dont have the time to read it or have an interest in reading it so it acts like a bible for most men. theres the womens counter book but i highly doubt the average women will read it. usually if a women reads it, its b/c shes been played hard and is very spiteful. u know wat they say "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"

i remember sending one of my friends (whos a girl: ye i know i broke the rules but w.e) a copy of the rules b.c she was interested in understanding men, but she nvr read it XD its funny b/c the guy shes dating now, follows it to the max and for that reason, shes mesmerized by him. its almost like a game that she has to win. alot their chemistry falls under teasing and push/pull.

its undeniably very effective against most women. however, with that said, there r always exceptions to every rule. b/c every1s different and the elicited responses can vary. that is where adaptation and how interesting u r comes into play

 

[Devout Pessimist]

Maybe she was just being nice to you and you misread it as being super interested.

 

[D3THRONED]

also another advantage that men have in following the rules is that b/c its been around for awhile & most men have access to it, most women dont have the time to read it or have an interest in reading it so it acts like a bible for most men. theres the womens counter book but i highly doubt the average women will read it. usually if a women reads it, its b/c shes been played hard and is very spiteful. u know wat they say "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"

i remember sending one of my friends (whos a girl: ye i know i broke the rules but w.e) a copy of the rules b.c she was interested in understanding men, but she nvr read it XD its funny b/c the guy shes dating now, follows it to the max and for that reason, shes mesmerized by him. its almost like a game that she has to win. alot their chemistry falls under teasing and push/pull.

its undeniably very effective against most women. however, with that said, there r always exceptions to every rule. b/c every1s different and the elicited responses can vary. that is where adaptation and how interesting u r comes into play

fuck yeah im getting advice from zack ryder. I'm a decent looking feller so I dont have a hard time getting girls or anything like that. Im not sure if I was too nice or what but I dont really give a fuck now I just don't see why people can't be straight forward.

 

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she goes to a college 10 hrs (drive) from the college i went to so I havent seen her in awhile. i talked/texted her a couple times between the first date and the second date.

how did so much change in the couple of months i didnt see her? i realized alot can change in a short period of time. i havent seen her since but i learned alot from this experience.

Your beta ass drove 10hrs to see her. That's a sign of desperation. Plus you probably took her to a lame place for dinner like Applebee's. Should have taken her to a classier joint like Sizzler. Only then could you touch her with the D.

 

[Banchan]

fuck yeah im getting advice from zack ryder. I'm a decent looking feller so I dont have a hard time getting girls or anything like that. Im not sure if I was too nice or what but I dont really give a fuck now I just don't see why people can't be straight forward.

Same reason guys disappear on women without "explaining" themselves.
They don't want to hurt your feelings and think gradually disappearing is a lot nicer than telling you outright they aren't interested.

 

[PUO3]

back in college i was dating this girl who ive met through a friend of a friend. she was really cute but was a lil slutty (with some tats, think sorority party girl) we went clubbing a couple times and i took her out on 2 dates. the first date went really well, she was receptive and interested. we talked and drank. it was sweet

she goes to a college 10 hrs (drive) from the college i went to so I havent seen her in awhile. i talked/texted her a couple times between the first date and the second date.

after a couple of months, i drove up to see her. the second date went horrendous. there was no chemistry, she seemed disinterested and was on her phone alot. I was still an amateur with women @ the time so i didnt know about being alpha and the rules. i dropped her off @ her sorority sisters house after we grabbed dinner. she gave me a goodnite kiss & left. i felt lost & confused

how did so much change in the couple of months i didnt see her? i realized alot can change in a short period of time. i havent seen her since but i learned alot from this experience.

1. develop chemistry/joke/dynamics (negging) with the girl early on and avoid the friendzone. make the intentions clear that ur dating for a relationship/sex

2. long distance relationships hardly ever work. this has less to do with this story than another relationship i had before that. however, if 2 ppl love each other enuff and want to be tied down to each other (ie make sacrifices), then it can totally work

3. follow the rules. (alpha, confidence, eye contact, posture, kino, dont be clingy) always try to better urself and learn new things. the more interesting and experienced u r, the more women r gonna wanna be around u. nowadays, its supereasy to get almost any girl. its as chazz puts it in wedding crashers, its like fishing with dynamite.

Let me get this straight, while in college, you drove 10 hours to go on a date with some chick?

 

[zackryder]

fuck yeah im getting advice from zack ryder. I'm a decent looking feller so I dont have a hard time getting girls or anything like that. Im not sure if I was too nice or what but I dont really give a fuck now I just don't see why people can't be straight forward.

ye its never straight forward. follow the rules and play it like a game. being decent-good looking helps alot in getting women. however, for those that dont have that luxury, u just have to better urself in other areas kinda like a scale. the more experienced/interesting/awesome u r, the less good looking u have to be to get women.



the key in all of this is confidence. u just need the balls to get up and go talk to women. most men r afraid of this b/c theyre not alpha and they lack the confidence to talk to women. theyre afraid of rejection, humiliation, ect. however, if u dont go up and talk to them, then ul nvr get their number is which is an auto loss. the mindset most men should have is if u do get rejected, ull just pretty much end up where u started, nothing worse. if ur self-esteem is high enuff, wat other ppl think shouldnt matter. all that matters is wat u think cuz ur alpha and ur awesome

 

[Hyperglide]

Yeah I pretty much just said fuck it. I was just a little confused by all of it honestly.

Sounds to me like she wanted you to take initiative. Chicks what dudes who will pick where to go to eat, pick what to eat, pick a time, pick a date, pick pick pick. Also just be yourself cause they'll see right through your lies.

 

[Hyperglide]

be like "hey girl, what's a thug gotta do around here to get dat pussy nam'sain?"

then change your identity.

Wrong it's Gnome sayin'.

 

[zackryder]

Your beta ass drove 10hrs to see her. That's a sign of desperation. Plus you probably took her to a lame place for dinner like Applebee's. Should have taken her to a classier joint like Sizzler. Only then could you touch her with the D.

Let me get this straight, while in college, you drove 10 hours to go on a date with some chick?

yes i did XD

beta-ed the crap outta dat. but that one experience changed my whole view on dating and perspective on women. that experience was a turning pt in my life. i was always taught to treat women with respect (to be there for em and do anything for em XD) and that if u showed that u care, it means alot. its the best way to get into da friendzone. from that experience i learned nice guys finished last

ever since then, ive been helping my fellow broskis out with advice, stories from my experiences, and wingmanning for some if they desperately needed it

its always nice to tackle the game with a wingman/broski/friend. for beginners its always nice to have a friend who has ur back no matter wat. u guys can push/spot each other when ur @ the gym(sometimes benching teh 275 is tuff and a broski can give ur the motivation/edge to lift dat), help each other hit on women, and provide moral support during times of need. the better/ more interesting u 2 become, the more women r gonna want u.

 

[Kevin Rudd]

Can we please have a forum rule in place mods? No chick threads without pics. We simply can't give informed advice without them.

In conclusion we need pics TS.

 

[D Train]

Girls are weird, man. Even they don't know what they want.

 

[themainman]

TS, take notes

 

[LucasWithLidOff]

Someone else got to her first. Should've just fucked her that first day you talked to her.

 

[GhostZ06]

Sup my fellow sherbros, I have come to you guys once again because y'all are geniuses.

I met this girl a while ago because our families are good friends with each other. We started talking more and hanging out a little bit. The problem is that this girl was acting super interested in me and talking to me a good bit asking me to come see her etc.. Then recently she hasn't been talking to me much or anything. I asked her to voodoo fest and she was stoked about it. But I haven't heard much from her since. I know there's a bunch of factors in this but am I over thinking this? This girl is actually really sweet and shy so idk wtf the deal is. She just doesn't seem interested now.

what the fuck...