White pride only exists as an expression of superiority. Brown or black pride only exist as the result of centuries of oppression.
I'm proud of the achievements of my Italian and German ancestors, but I don't credit the color of their skin. A lot of black people have no idea where their ancestors were taken from, so skin color is a much bigger part of their identity. Brown pride was adopted by people who were also the target of discrimination.
I don't understand the need to begrudge them this and pretend not to understand why it's different. I've heard you talk about your history plenty of times and white was never a necessary part of the narrative. You certainly never made it one.