Haha this proves that you will find envy in every part of the world.
No, it just proves the quip that no man is hero to his own valet. And I don't think we disagree too much.
I agree with your sentiment that my previous post was one-sided. I could've made a list of all the positives. His movies were incredible. He was known to be generous to his disciples. But he's already got an abundance of hype. My post was deliberately anti-hype.
He's incredibly charismatic, and did things worthy of admiration. But
being a great gungfu hero/mentor was not one of them. Traditional gungfu values are a lot like those of Japanese martial arts:
- Never to bully those weaker than you;
- To remain true in love;
- Emphasize the spiritual over the material;
- To be humble.
Bruce Lee did none of the above, although he propped himself up as the exemplar gungfu man, and a proponent of martial arts philosophy.
If you want a fair assessment, I'd agree with you that any ethical code is hopelessly idealistic, and almost anyone on earth would fall short.
But despite being well aware of all his character flaws, hardcore fans (including myself, otherwise I wouldn't have read his fourth-rate philosophy books) in Hong Kong love Bruce Lee anyway. But not because he was wise, or the baddest man on the planet, but because he was crazy charismatic and made amazing movies (look at the slew of cringeworthy MMA movies to see how hard it is to make a good fight flick).
Hero worship is fine, everyone does it to an extent, but be clear what you are worshipping them for.
Same thing with Arnold Schwarzenegger. Everyone knows he's got a really douchey side to him, but still admire him, justifiably, as a cultural icon. The difference is, globally, the Bruce Lee hype train >>> Arnold's.