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But our lives aren't that bad, in terms of what we have access to. I remember my best friend and me both having a grudge against society, not that we didn't have reasons, we did but we were also encouraged by a lot of entities telling us how poor we were or how bad we had it. To hell with that! Our grandfathers had the real problems, the ones we have are still there sure, but we do have to admit we generate some of them just with what we've been conned into thinking. Alot of it, in my opinion, is being told that we didn't have a chance and that we should be angry about it, that's why a lot of people act angry, I don't think they are really angry, and to be perfectly honest, as far as us Indians, most of us have not been through nearly as much as our grandparents. We don't have a lot of money? A nice house? A Tesla? So what, I don't really need those things. It's stupid to let those hangups bother you.
So..., I put much of our troubles it down to just poor parenting, neglect, abuse and poor modeling. I've seen it at work and it's sad as hell. You have any human of any race as a baby and all they need is the proper support and love and the proper times as well as what they watch you do, (not what you say) Not that I don't understand or feel bad for my family and friends, I do, but goddamn, there isn't much I can do for them, I've never been rich myself and I have no way of curing addictions and insufficient attitudes. As far as anger, many people have commented on my anger and yes, it's there even now but it's something that I have to manage and not make society at large be responsible for.
Lives aren't that bad compared to who?
We are products of our environment, and our experience. That's how we primarily live our lives. I think it's a common mistake to try and make real serious comparisons between how we live vs. how an ancestor, or someone living across the world is living/lived. For all intents and purposes, we practically lived in different worlds.
What you value now, your grandfather may not have valued in their time and place..and vice versa.
We all have different struggles, I don't think it's really useful to try and rank and compare our struggles.
And I'm sure they had some things that they enjoyed that have been practically lost to us today.
I get what you're saying though. I don't really disagree.
I think we should be mindful of history and surroundings, but also not let those things unnecessarily weigh us down. Anger and resentment aren't good for the heart, and they don't often help you move to better places.