Atypical Red flags

[Tuvatuva]

What are red flags in relationships for you that people don't commonly consider or talk about?

A woman who's over her mid-20s who's never had a "real job" unless she's been working on a doctorate or had other some of commitment that requires a lot of investment of dedication and time. She'll likely not understand commitment or that relationships also require work. Too many people these days think once you fall in love that it's just easy going from there, and if it doesn't work out like they want, they can easily hop off and on to another relationship.

Related to above, people who have had way too easy of a life and never really had to be challenged. They don't always understand that not everybody has it easy and can be quite judgmental of people with struggles.

Rape fantasies. I've been a few who wanted to be "taken" while struggling, and I realized that they were fucked in the head. Some guys might like this but I found it to be disturbing.

 

[Tone C]

A penis.

 

[Ponchik]

A penis.

A penis that is bigger than mine.

Aside from that I don't have any that I care about. I just avoid smokers and drinkers.

 

[Flower2dPeople]

A penis.

 

[Contempt]

Everyone has sexual preferences that discriminate. What makes them think they are so special that people aren't allowed to discount them based on their ...issues?

 

[Flower2dPeople]

Everyone has sexual preferences that discriminate. What makes them think they are so special that people aren't allowed to discount them based on their ...issues?

This is what a bigot would say.

Away with your logic.

 

[Patrick Jane]

1. Several speaking characteristics:

- high rising terminal
- excessive vocal fry
- excessive use of the words "like" and "literally"

2. Bad posture

3. Socks not matching

 

[Beau Wring]

What are red flags in relationships for you that people don't commonly consider or talk about?
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is this flag red enough for you ?

 

[BigDeadFreak]

When a woman starts trying to change you early in the relationship. It's like, if you don't like how I am why are you even with me? You know that woman will never be happy and always find something to complain about.

 

[jericksen5]

When first starting dating someone, I always paid close attention to how she talked to and interacted with people in the service industry. Cashiers, waiters, etc. If she’s shitty, talks down to or acts entitled toward, that’s a hard pass for me. It’s a view into how she treats people that she’s not actively trying to project her persona toward.

 

[Contempt]

Any who call me "Daddy" during sex... shows they have some serious issues

 

[Brom Bones]

When a woman starts to pit your friends vs her. Stuff like, "You spend so much time with the boys and not enough time with me. Not like just spending time, but going out for fun. You're always going over there to watch the game or going bowling." She's trying to mentally manipulate you into a repressive psychosocial...

Who am I kidding? A penis.

 

[Beau Wring]

Any who call me "Daddy" during sex... shows they have some serious issues

unless its your daughter, but i can see you're not from that part of murica, you're just an aussie bogan, so alls good mate.

 

[Texan6533]

I would say if he or she is constantly trying to correct or not taking your word on anything. Every once in a while is fine, but checking up on everything you say is pretty telling.

 

[HUGHPHUG]

a sherdog account

 

[deucesarewild]

A penis.

That's not very inclusive of you.

 

[deucesarewild]

What are red flags in relationships for you that people don't commonly consider or talk about?

A woman who's over her mid-20s who's never had a "real job" unless she's been working on a doctorate or had other some of commitment that requires a lot of investment of dedication and time. She'll likely not understand commitment or that relationships also require work. Too many people these days think once you fall in love that it's just easy going from there, and if it doesn't work out like they want, they can easily hop off and on to another relationship.

Related to above, people who have had way too easy of a life and never really had to be challenged. They don't always understand that not everybody has it easy and can be quite judgmental of people with struggles.

Rape fantasies. I've been a few who wanted to be "taken" while struggling, and I realized that they were fucked in the head. Some guys might like this but I found it to be disturbing.

"I just get along better with guys," and has a ton of guy friends. When these girls settle down, all those friendships with male friends suddenly die off...yeah, chances are she's insecure and was at least a bit of a slut.

 

[Red Beard]

a sherdog account

CAN YOU FUCKING IMAGINE?!?!

 

[AFanNotAFighter]

Can't spell or write a coherent sentence.
Can't get the mail without bringing her phone.
Wastes food.
Can't do basic arithmetic.
Thinks a man is a personal cash register.
Refuses to do anything that will get her hands dirty.
Has no hobbies.

 

[Fluffernutter]