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Asked Woman from China out

1. Don't say "yep"
2. Don't tell her how good the restaurant is. You made it about the restaurant instead of going out with YOU.
 
Just start lifting weights and when you build muscles all the babes want to date you. Not just that they want their bed soft but their man HARD!

No joke man. This texting bull shit is a waste of time. Get built and you will choose or be chosen?
 
You're chasing after a girl who's willing to go out for dinner with you despite having a boyfriend? You really want a girl like that? I would avoid.
 
gotta be careful here bro. I'm not a big believer in stepping on other men's toes. However, I would gauge here a little more. There's obviously something going on here. I would say she is in fact in a relationship. If you investigate her a little more you will prob know for sure. She's probably wanting to leave him but not wanting to look like a complete whore or a liar so she's at least letting you know. I guess that's kind of respectable, but not the fact that she's sliding in the DM's of another man.

But look, if you must step on another man's toes, I guess it helps if you don't know him.

I would think the most obvious answer is she's wanting to get to know you before she dumps him and pursues you. She may not actually "cheat" in terms of kissing or sex. I got you a quote to go by below:

A woman is like a monkey, she's not going to let go of one branch until she has her hand on another....
 
WaylonMercy5150 said:
For that one fraction of a second, you were open to options you had never considered. *That* is the exploration that awaits you. Not mapping stars and studying nebulae, but charting the unknown possibilities of existence.
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Did you just quote Q?
 
Is it just me or has there been an influx here lately of guys trying to get with girls who say they have boyfriends?
 
Lubaolong said:
You're chasing after a girl who's willing to go out for dinner with you despite having a boyfriend? You really want a girl like that? I would avoid.
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I agree with you. I made that mistake in college. She was tricky, always giving me flirty vibes and trying to keep me within reach. But would give me these weird feelings like "she doesn't cheat." Her boyfriend lived across state and she only saw him like 5-10 times a year.

Anyways, we got a little closer eventually. But one week she invited me to meet her at a bar, so that night I went to meet up with her only to find out her boyfriend was with her. I just walked out. She could have at least told me that shit. Flash forward a year and she was in a relationship with another dude. I'm glad it wasn't me that got caught in that trap. You could say she just used me for attention to fill the void of her boyfriend being out. But I never got too invested
 
Organic Damage said:
Is it just me or has there been an influx here lately of guys trying to get with girls who say they have boyfriends?
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I don’t want to hook up with a girl with a boyfriend.

I think she might be lying but still giving me a chance, if that makes sense.


I’ll find out tonight.
 
TheLastEmperorReurns said:
I’m hoping she doesn’t actually have a bf
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This is a case of pick your poison. Either she is a cheater or she is a dishonest individual. Lying to get rid of someone is fine but lying to rope someone in is insidious in my view. It seems innocent at this point but relationships are like boxing matches. You start off strong and pleasant but the novelty wears off and you get to see more of the flaws. If she is already like that in the beginning, then its only going to get worse.

Best foundation for relationship is to be so enticing that she knows if she screws up you can move on. This will deter women of manipulative nature and so you end up women who want to prove themselves to you.
 
TheLastEmperorReurns said:
She told me she has a bf, I backed off, she insisted on having dinner anyway.

Was she just testing me? (I have 0 game and awareness of female cues).

I pushed for next week but she said 2 weeks (seems like a bad sign).

I 100% don’t want to make moves on another man’s girlfriend but at the same time hoping that she lied about actually having a boyfriend.

Thoughts?

Anyone have experience they’re willing to share?
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Why would you agree to go out with a girl that said she has a boyfriend? It's clear you don't want to be friends with her, so why advertise yourself as such?

Cancel that shit and tell her you what you told us, in that you're not looking for just friendship, and not comfortable infringing on another dude's girl. Your boundaries will be clear and she'll respect you, whether she notices that overtly or not.
 
i only know i dated 1 chinese girl who was a nympho

sounds like she just wants friends based on the text, personally i wont spend $ on a girl if theres no chance to get down.

if u hang with her at all try not to ever let her know u are attracted to her. treat her like a guy friend
(unless u like guys, which i doubt)
 
TheLastEmperorReurns said:
She told me she has a bf, I backed off, she insisted on having dinner anyway.

Was she just testing me? (I have 0 game and awareness of female cues).

I pushed for next week but she said 2 weeks (seems like a bad sign).

I 100% don’t want to make moves on another man’s girlfriend but at the same time hoping that she lied about actually having a boyfriend.

Thoughts?

Anyone have experience they’re willing to share?
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You a virgin? If so it is okay bro
DeJulez said:
Shes Asian which means shes not use to Americanized ways.
She probably thinks, as she said in her text, that she needs to make friends.

Asians and Indias, or people of that area have different social enviorments.

I met a girl whos from America but family from Nepal.
She was using couch surfering apps when she went to visit her sister because it seemed like a cool way to meet people.
She said she tried Tinder but said guys were just asking her out and stuff.

Girls like that are under the impression that guys just want to have friends to go hang out with.
Seems like thats probably happening right now to you.
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Lol
 
GtehMVP said:
Why would you agree to go out with a girl that said she has a boyfriend? It's clear you don't want to be friends with her, so why advertise yourself as such?

Cancel that shit and tell her you what you told us, in that you're not looking for just friendship, and not comfortable infringing on another dude's girl. Your boundaries will be clear and she'll respect you, whether she notices that overtly or not.
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Just cancelled.

Felt wrong from the beginning but I’m glad I asked around.

If she was lying now’s her chance to admit it so I could give her the excalibur.
 
The Chinese have a reputation for eating all sorts of animals of many shapes and sizes.
They eat a lot of weird shit that would disgust most Americans.

And you suggested a vegan kosher place?

GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE!!!!!
 
She wants a free meal. Don't be a cuck. Chad doesn't need to ask women out.
 
Rhood said:
The Chinese have a reputation for eating all sorts of animals of many shapes and sizes.
They eat a lot of weird shit that would disgust most Americans.

And you suggested a vegan kosher place?

GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE!!!!!
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Many species have gone extinct because Chinese men were eating them to get their dicks hard.
 
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