Relationships Are you fine by yourself or do you need a girl?

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Do you prefer being single living by yourself or do you need a girl with you?

I've been single off and on so many times. There's so many pros and cons that it's hard to pick which life is better.

life is easy when you're single but a bit boring and sometimes you need someone to drive you to the hospital or emergencies or something

but if got a girl, she can help you with all that but you have to share her problems as well.
 
How can you know if wife is just waiting for the right time and off you? Lots of people are very selfish and dishonest.
 
Yes, I’m fine with myself but the woman who carries my ring has it because she genuinely makes my life so much better. I used to just do my thing solo and didn’t care much. My feelings changed when I met the right one.

I don’t need somebody but I met the right somebody and I don’t want to do life without her. It took me years to find someone I feel this way about. I think I got very lucky. She’s cool as hell and she’s my best friend. She’s good with my elderly mom, she’s good with my friends and I honestly love having her around.
 
In the modern world, I can get almost everything I would want to get from a relationship by being single and meeting women casually. The need for committed relationships is no longer relevant for me. Intimacy, sex, someone to hang out and do stuff with, etc. I can get all if it without having a girlfriend. Plus I don't need to deal with the hassle of maintaining a relationship with nagging, jealousy, arguments, etc. I don't want to get married and have kids so I have absolutely no reason to be in a relationship.

That doesn't mean I don't want women around. I enjoy the time i have alone, but I also appreciate the time I share with others. If it's a woman I can share intimacy with, even better.
 
I'm cool either way honestly. I enjoy being in a relationship sometimes, but really, I just don't know if it's worth the effort these days.

My life is pretty chill and relaxed, anything I want, I've already bought it. I've been single now for nearly four months... and I just don't want to get off my ass and put in the work to change that.

Ideal situation is a hot young fuck buddy who likes going out to bars, restaurants and wineries etc... If I can line that up, It'll be the perfect.
 
I'm hardly the most extroverted person, but my lengthy time single was both incredibly depressing and unproductive.

I don't think I would have done much without my missus. Loneliness causes depression and depression kills drive.

I don't need much. Just one.
 
As long as she is small and incapable of finishing her entree at restaurants.

I guess i’ll finish it🙄
 
Do you prefer being single living by yourself or do you need a girl with you?

I've been single off and on so many times. There's so many pros and cons that it's hard to pick which life is better.

life is easy when you're single but a bit boring and sometimes you need someone to drive you to the hospital or emergencies or something

but if got a girl, she can help you with all that but you have to share her problems as well.
I enjoyed both being alone and having a partner (twice each). It is hard to say too.

One thing I do not felt the same is that life is easier if you are single. There are three things that make life with a partner easier for me:
* Finances. My ex and my actual GF made about or a little more money than myself. That allowed us to have a great life with no financial stress.
* Ordinary stuff as groceries, cleaning, cooking etc. While I do most of those at home it is nice to have someone to cover you when you can't or don't want to.
* Sex: I'm a twice at week type of guy. Having someone in house and not having to go trough the meeting and dating saves a lot of time and energy
 
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