a.) 9/10 topics on the forum nobody is an expert in. By your logic, let's all just leave.
b.) I have stated that I accept the math at face value, I don't believe the scientists involved to be pulling anything disingenuous in their findings. Thus, I have not criticized "black holes" or "dark matter" based on the math in and of itself.
c.) All I'm at odds with is the lack of observational data, IE, recording something entering the event horizon and disappearing completely in it's current form. This to my knowledge has never been recorded, and the images presented as "proof" of this phenomenon seem more like "likely suspects to fit the bill if the bill is correct" rather than "here is where it's happening" in a proven sense. It's a nuanced point, but the main evidence for black holes still relies almost entirely on theoretical math that is untesable, hasn't been tested or has no parallel elsewhere in science.
I can't be wrong about anything, because I'm asking questions and positing scenarios as quite possible given the current evidence at hand.