32 year old going out with a 21 year old

[Da Boss]

So far these are the only ones giving an accurate response to the TS question.

yes, pursue it.

just because this situation does not fit your everyday-typical-relationship, does not mean that it can't work.

just expect this girl to change over time. she's twenty-one, and women in their twenties tend to, "play the field" to see what kind of man they really want to be with for the long-term.

Go for it dude.. if your down and out and she is making you feel good. go for it. have fun with her. let your mood increase. than that will enable your over all situation to increase. Good things will happen when you feel good.

This. I had some serious issues with myself being nearly homeless and hanging with the wrong people and meeting my current girlfriend (20 yrs old, I'm 25) has increased my overall quality of life. Got a good job and a new house and she just increases my quality of life ten fold. Plus she is banging hott and we really click. So, go for it man. The only thing you have to be wary about is immaturity which anyone can display at times.

Most of you are telling him go for it! Yeah no shit it's a no brainer that a guy his age that can still score young ass should get laid and have fun with it.

But the TS has emphasized that he wants a relationship. He wants opinions on if the age difference will pose a problem for a long term commitment, not a sexual fling.

 

[Tankeray]

not a big deal. i'll fuck anything legal at any age I'm at. don't waste your time coming to an internet forum asking a bunch of dudes where to put ur penis in.

/thread. Fucking do it dude, there should be no question.

 

[Fat Abbot]

You know that feminism and all the estrogens in the environment have turned men into bitches when.....

At no other point in history would this have even been a question, it was common practise to find an attractive younger mate.

Mens test levels have dropped over the last 50 years and their nuts have shrank. And dudes thinking it's not ok to get with a younger piece of tail is the result.

It's a mad world.

 

[WorldofWarcraft]

I just looked her up. She's cute. I wish you both the best of luck

 

[guiza]

Honestly man if you are looking for a serious relationship. You're not gonna find it in a 21 year old. Any girl under 25 for that matter.

 

[Chernabog]

Honestly man if you are looking for a serious relationship. You're not gonna find it in a 21 year old. Any girl under 25 for that matter.

What about couple that marry under 25?

 

[Strikes Again]

Pursue and stop looking so deep into it. Enjoy the ride. You sound like the kind of dude who will sabotage this kind of relationship.

This.
TSyou need quit telling yourself you're depressed. Start saying positive things. All the time.
It might sound dumb but trust me. Act happy and you'll be happy. There is a lot of ways to make money. You just need to get out of your comfort zone

 

[Strikes Again]

I was dumped not so long ago and I've been depressed for awhile. I work in a grocery store and I was seeing this girl who was 23, but she had to move out of state. There's this other girl who works in a coffee shop inside the grocery. She's 21, EXTREMELY attractive, absolutely gorgeous with a fantastic body, but she's only 21. I'm looking for a serious relationship and this girl is into me. We went out last night and watched a movie. I had a good time with her and she wants to keep going out. She has already said shes attracted to me. But like I said, I want a serious relationship. We get along great, she's not immature at all. She has been on her own since she was 17 and doesn't act like other girls in their early 20s. I've been very depressed lately. I graduated with quite a bit of student debt and couldn't find a decent job. I'm barely making over minimum wage and this girl makes me feel alright.

The age difference is quite huge. Should I pursue to keep going out with this girl?

I'm 31 and my gf of just over a year is 21. Ours is working just fine. She still likes to party and shit but for the most part she's everything I want. Plus she's fucking hot too. So that helps

 

[guiza]

What about couple that marry under 25?

Usually have a kid.

I really set myself up on this one since I'm under 25 and in a serious relationship. But seriously, I don't know how I'm in one. I wouldn't date me.

 

[Gaijin36]

age doesn't matter bro.

(also posted by Ace of Spade in P&M)

Always thought this song was a little creepy......no doubt, Pretty F*ing Creepy seeing the video as well. Is this guy in jail yet???

 

[Fawlty]

I was dumped not so long ago and I've been depressed for awhile. I work in a grocery store and I was seeing this girl who was 23, but she had to move out of state. There's this other girl who works in a coffee shop inside the grocery. She's 21, EXTREMELY attractive, absolutely gorgeous with a fantastic body, but she's only 21. I'm looking for a serious relationship and this girl is into me. We went out last night and watched a movie. I had a good time with her and she wants to keep going out. She has already said shes attracted to me. But like I said, I want a serious relationship. We get along great, she's not immature at all. She has been on her own since she was 17 and doesn't act like other girls in their early 20s. I've been very depressed lately. I graduated with quite a bit of student debt and couldn't find a decent job. I'm barely making over minimum wage and this girl makes me feel alright.

The age difference is quite huge. Should I pursue to keep going out with this girl?

When you're depressed, making no money and in debt is a really great time to have a serious relationship.

 

[Nihongi]

Pat Barry says yes.

 

[Tankeray]

When you're depressed, making no money and in debt is a really great time to have a serious relationship.

lawlz...nice one

 

[lesterdiamond]

don't do it bro....................ur over 30 now and that means nothing under 25.

she is going to change over the next few years and you will get tossed aside like a stale beer.

 

[Omegaboy13]

When you're depressed, making no money and in debt is a really great time to have a serious relationship.

Lol!


Yeah man, not a great time to get into a relationship. In this case I think it's not so much about the age, but the maturity level. Every guy who tries to tame a young stuck up uptighty say the cliche, "she is so mature and acts like shes X age". You're fooling yourself. You wanna have fun? go for it. Looking for a serious relationship? No fly zone.

Sometimes the grass on the other size is greener because it was fertilized with bullshit. Don't ever be afraid to be alone, nancy boy.

 

[jstnslby]

E=MSK1010;79046355]I knew you were gonna post in here.[/QUOTE]

Wow that was extremely hard on my note.

 

[TheQu**]

I would be leery of any woman willing to go out with someone 10 years older and working in a grocery store for minimum wage.

 

[destructive]

At 32, socially acceptable would be 23, but it should be close enough that you wont look creepy.

Interesting

 

[GATES]

When I was 21 I dated a 33 year old. It was fun while it lasted.

 

[Merlotte's]

Get it while the gettin's good.