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32 year old going out with a 21 year old

Nothing wrong with working in grocery store until you find something better. Also nothing wrong with dating someone younger. The problem you need to take care of is your depression. See a doctor.
 
MMA_Fan said:
This is the most you'll get :)

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How about a more revealing pic of you.
 
Dont get attatched. It would suck to have your heart broken twice my dude. Once is bad enough.
 
i'd spend the time you had to create the thread to bang her.
 
surf fu said:
Go for it if you want but be prepared for the differences.
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This... Just went through a similar situation in regards to age and beauty of the girl. I felt old immediatley and found myself trying to keep up in every respect. Ironically, she felt I didn't take her seriously. It didn't last very long... But it was fun as hell. Go for it bro. Hope for the best and expect the worst...
 
Sleep with her then decide all this stuff. I guarantee you will regret never sleeping with her, whether you regret not having a relationship is undecided.
 
If you don't someone else is going to. And missing out on this chance will make you more depressed. Like some of the other guys said - don't over analyze.

In the words of the Cable Guy, "He who hesitates masterbates."
 
Richmma80 said:
I was dumped not so long ago and I've been depressed for awhile. I work in a grocery store and I was seeing this girl who was 23, but she had to move out of state. There's this other girl who works in a coffee shop inside the grocery. She's 21, EXTREMELY attractive, absolutely gorgeous with a fantastic body, but she's only 21. I'm looking for a serious relationship and this girl is into me. We went out last night and watched a movie. I had a good time with her and she wants to keep going out. She has already said shes attracted to me. But like I said, I want a serious relationship. We get along great, she's not immature at all. She has been on her own since she was 17 and doesn't act like other girls in their early 20s. I've been very depressed lately. I graduated with quite a bit of student debt and couldn't find a decent job. I'm barely making over minimum wage and this girl makes me feel alright.

The age difference is quite huge. Should I pursue to keep going out with this girl?
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You should be fine unless she finds out you have "MMA" in your SN. If she does, she'll figure out you swing the other way too...
 
when i met my wife i wa 33 and she was 23... differences in ages always sound nonsense to me, if she has a mature personality I dont see any problem
 
This thread again?

The fact that people need to be told that a relationship between two consenting adults is okay or not is disturbing.

So much brainwash.

People are just so conditioned by the government, religion, or society making every decision for them that the minute something comes up that doesn't fit into the little bubble that you are supposed to stay in according to those entities, they flip out and dont know what to do so they create threads about it. It really is sad.
 
Magjee said:
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At 32, socially acceptable would be 23, but it should be close enough that you wont look creepy.
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That table is bullshit. I'm 21, no chance it would be acceptable for me to be with a 17 year old.
 
Richmma80 said:
I was dumped not so long ago and I've been depressed for awhile. I work in a grocery store and I was seeing this girl who was 23, but she had to move out of state. There's this other girl who works in a coffee shop inside the grocery. She's 21, EXTREMELY attractive, absolutely gorgeous with a fantastic body, but she's only 21. I'm looking for a serious relationship and this girl is into me. We went out last night and watched a movie. I had a good time with her and she wants to keep going out. She has already said shes attracted to me. But like I said, I want a serious relationship. We get along great, she's not immature at all. She has been on her own since she was 17 and doesn't act like other girls in their early 20s. I've been very depressed lately. I graduated with quite a bit of student debt and couldn't find a decent job. I'm barely making over minimum wage and this girl makes me feel alright.

The age difference is quite huge. Should I pursue to keep going out with this girl?
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yes, pursue it.

just because this situation does not fit your everyday-typical-relationship, does not mean that it can't work.

just expect this girl to change over time. she's twenty-one, and women in their twenties tend to, "play the field" to see what kind of man they really want to be with for the long-term.
 
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Lost Limb said:
That table is bullshit. I'm 21, no chance it would be acceptable for me to be with a 17 year old.
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there wouldnt be anything wrong with that, you and your pals just think that a girl in high school is still a kid when in reality you are all still kids!
 
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