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32 year old going out with a 21 year old

bangerang1990 said:
Were are you from ?? 21 and 17 isnt that bad in my eyes , but my nickname in college was the hyman basher
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I live in the UK. I wouldn't be with a girl younger than 18. You would get jokingly called a pervert, plus the idea of being with a girl who is still in school while I'm just about to finish university is too weird.

Minimum age for sex is 16 here as far as I know but I still wouldn't be comfortable with it.






I would slay a 17 year old dude though.
 
Men age like wine, Women age like cheese.

Go for it! Hopefully, you will still have 10 years before she lets herself go.


This woman was once 21 years old and hot. Then she hit her 30's.

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WalkenWouldOwn said:
Go for it.

But I can't help but chuckle at this-
"doesn't act like other girls in their early 20s"

Everyone tells themselves this to make themselves feel better. You're seeing what you want to see IMO. But no need to overthink this, she's legal. Just keep going out, get some, and don't take it too seriously.
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I do find it amusing when people rationalize a large age gap by saying the other person is extremely mature for their age. I figure an age gap like that would be a deal breaker because we would be at two completely different stages in our lives. But I guess I will find out later when I become an old man myself.

For the time being I will try to enjoy all the things that come with youth. Frankly I am surprised that there are so many old folks on an internet forum.
 
i was about to tell you that age is nothing,it's all about metal maturity, but you said she acts mature, so it's all right go for it.
 


age doesn't matter bro.

(also posted by Ace of Spade in P&M)
 
mister who said:
I do find it amusing when people rationalize a large age gap by saying the other person is extremely mature for their age. I figure an age gap like that would be a deal breaker because we would be at two completely different stages in our lives. But I guess I will find out later when I become an old man myself.

For the time being I will try to enjoy all the things that come with youth. Frankly I am surprised that there are so many old folks on an internet forum.
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I will lay the wisdom smack-down on your unlearned young ass!

The only good thing about getting older is that you know you are going to eventually die. One day you are 21 and full of hopes and dreams. The next, you wonder where it all went wrong. The gorgeous woman you married is a pig, you are stuck in a dead end job,your jerk-off kids are draining your bank account, your balls are sagging down between your knees and you can't get an erection anymore.

Enjoy your youth because when that is gone, you are fucked!

Youth is wasted on the young!
 
And wisdom is wasted on the old. All that life experience and knowledge but zero opportunities to pursue them or change the past. Life is ironic like that.
 
Tomax said:
What degree did you graduate with that limits you to working in a grocery store?
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Probably an American one. :wink: Bravo, TS. It's a touch of a cradle rob, but there's nothing immoral about it. She's a grown girl. At 21 she isn't limited by anything. In the grand scheme of time nobody will care except haters who wanted her for themselves.
 
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We've seen worse around here. And I'm somewhat surprised it hasn't yet been brought up.
 
Falconkick said:
Go for it dude.. if your down and out and she is making you feel good. go for it. have fun with her. let your mood increase. than that will enable your over all situation to increase. Good things will happen when you feel good.
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This. I had some serious issues with myself being nearly homeless and hanging with the wrong people and meeting my current girlfriend (20 yrs old, I'm 25) has increased my overall quality of life. Got a good job and a new house and she just increases my quality of life ten fold. Plus she is banging hott and we really click. So, go for it man. The only thing you have to be wary about is immaturity which anyone can display at times.
 
jstnslby said:
This. I had some serious issues with myself being nearly homeless and hanging with the wrong people and meeting my current girlfriend (20 yrs old, I'm 25) has increased my overall quality of life. Got a good job and a new house and she just increases my quality of life ten fold. Plus she is banging hott and we really click. So, go for it man. The only thing you have to be wary about is immaturity which anyone can display at times.
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I knew you were gonna post in here.
 
well, she's only two years younger than your ex... so what's the big deal?
 
I've dated girls that much younger than me several times. No offense, but why do people feel the need to make threads about this kind of thing? Feel it out and make up your own mind about it- nobody here will know the situation any better than you.
 
I was once in the same boat.

Ironic thing was she was wayyyyyy more mature than the 25-28 year olds I dated after.

Made me realize how stupid it is to discriminate based on age like that.
 
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