32 year old going out with a 21 year old

[Richmma80]

I was dumped not so long ago and I've been depressed for awhile. I work in a grocery store and I was seeing this girl who was 23, but she had to move out of state. There's this other girl who works in a coffee shop inside the grocery. She's 21, EXTREMELY attractive, absolutely gorgeous with a fantastic body, but she's only 21. I'm looking for a serious relationship and this girl is into me. We went out last night and watched a movie. I had a good time with her and she wants to keep going out. She has already said shes attracted to me. But like I said, I want a serious relationship. We get along great, she's not immature at all. She has been on her own since she was 17 and doesn't act like other girls in their early 20s. I've been very depressed lately. I graduated with quite a bit of student debt and couldn't find a decent job. I'm barely making over minimum wage and this girl makes me feel alright.

The age difference is quite huge. Should I pursue to keep going out with this girl?

 

[Vincent86]

yes

 

[Rmbr2Breathe]

Pursue and stop looking so deep into it. Enjoy the ride. You sound like the kind of dude who will sabotage this kind of relationship.

 

[Falconkick]

Go for it dude.. if your down and out and she is making you feel good. go for it. have fun with her. let your mood increase. than that will enable your over all situation to increase. Good things will happen when you feel good.

 

[Flap]

not a big deal. i'll fuck anything legal at any age I'm at. don't waste your time coming to an internet forum asking a bunch of dudes where to put ur penis in.

 

[surf fu]

Go for it if you want but be prepared for the differences.

 

[mrsinister]

I was dumped not so long ago and I've been depressed for awhile. I work in a grocery store and I was seeing this girl who was 23, but she had to move out of state. There's this other girl who works in a coffee shop inside the grocery. She's 21, EXTREMELY attractive, absolutely gorgeous with a fantastic body, but she's only 21. I'm looking for a serious relationship and this girl is into me. We went out last night and watched a movie. I had a good time with her and she wants to keep going out. She has already said shes attracted to me. But like I said, I want a serious relationship. We get along great, she's not immature at all. She has been on her own since she was 17 and doesn't act like other girls in their early 20s. I've been very depressed lately. I graduated with quite a bit of student debt and couldn't find a decent job. I'm barely making over minimum wage and this girl makes me feel alright.

The age difference is quite huge. Should I pursue to keep going out with this girl?

Don't be an idiot. Ride this good luck as far as you can.

 

[Joe Rogaine]

over analysis leads to paralysis

 

[Josh]

I was dumped not so long ago and I've been depressed for awhile. I work in a grocery store and I was seeing this girl who was 23, but she had to move out of state. There's this other girl who works in a coffee shop inside the grocery. She's 21, EXTREMELY attractive, absolutely gorgeous with a fantastic body, but she's only 21. I'm looking for a serious relationship and this girl is into me. We went out last night and watched a movie. I had a good time with her and she wants to keep going out. She has already said shes attracted to me. But like I said, I want a serious relationship. We get along great, she's not immature at all. She has been on her own since she was 17 and doesn't act like other girls in their early 20s. I've been very depressed lately. I graduated with quite a bit of student debt and couldn't find a decent job. I'm barely making over minimum wage and this girl makes me feel alright.

The age difference is quite huge. Should I pursue to keep going out with this girl?

What degree did you graduate with that limits you to working in a grocery store?

Also, I would be concerned about a smoking hot 21 year old that's interested in a 32 year old that works for peanuts at a grocery store. You must work in produce and drop a potato down your pants when you start your shift, be honest.

 

[Linkuei]

The age difference isn't really huge. First thing is it might seem amazing now because you feel low and seems like they only thing right at the moment. But it really doesn't matter how much a gap it is really. I mean she is at least 21.

The only thing I wold worry about is how much she feel she went through in life and is contempt in just being with you. Big plus she is very mature for her age though. I would just take it one day at a time.

 

[jackietreehorn8]

The red flag here is the 21 year old absolutely gorgeous girl with a fantastic body being interested in spending time with a 32 year old bag boy. I don't know what to think, it just seems weird. But given what we know, you gotta keep at it and see what happens.

 

[Henry Huggins]

don't be surprised when a 21 year old decides she'd rather have fun instead of being tied down..keep that in mind but go for it, bro

 

[AGGAMEMNON66]

Should I pursue to keep going out with this girl?

No. Continue to be alone, continue to be depressed and continue to make threads on Sherdog about your real life.

 

[surf fu]

don't be surprised when a 21 year old decides she'd rather have fun instead of being tied down..keep that in mind but go for it, bro

Yep. Don't expect too much commitment.

 

[Magjee]

At 32, socially acceptable would be 23, but it should be close enough that you wont look creepy.

 

[Aunty Dana**]

Keep banging, bro.

 

[ValeTudo95]

 

[fingercuffs]

This is the second time you've made this thread. Why is that?

 

[Islam Imamate]

Its not a big deal, my cousin married someone around ten years older than she was. Granted, she was in he early 30s when they started dating but he's a divorcee so it evens out.

 

[0vary hugger**]

The younger the better TS,go for it.,