This is a fascinating subject. Too bad it turned into a flame war.
Some of you guys are really crazy and irrational.
If I want a blue eyed, blond haired, white, straight child, that should be my right.
I'm going to start here. Everyone wants a normal child who will live a happy, successful life and go on to be married and have their own children. It seems that parents want to be grandparents later in life.
Parents have expectations and dreams for how their kids will turn out, but ultimately you don't get to choose the sexuality of your child once they turn a certain age. I'm not sure why you'd label an infant gay/lesbian/straight. That seems pretty silly.
I suppose its for the best but it's horrible when you think of all those alive with down syndrome today that that these people enjoying their lives wouldn't exist because of this..
People with Down's can live happy lives.
How do you measure their happiness? Because they are smiling and laughing? Is that the definition of happiness and fulfillment? A mentally retarded person who is capable of laughing and smiling?
Down's syndrome is a form of mental retardation. Their brains, their awareness and their functionality and their existence are literally retarded (limited). They do not have full capacity.
My dog is happy. He loves life. He loves to run and he loves to swim and loves belly rubs, but if I were to take his existence and transform it into a human body, would that be ethical? Would that make him human if he had a human body but the limitations of his current mind? Sounds ridiculous to compare a retarded person to a dog but aren't a lot of people who suffer from mental retardation essentially toddlers? Aren't dogs a lot like toddlers?
This is the thing a lot of people here seem to be missing. I know a few people with downs and they are the happiest people you could want to meet. There are plenty of people who are smarter who contribute less and are more miserable. If quality of life is the marker for who we should abort id put anybody who thinks it's disgusting or wrong to raise a child with downs higher on the list then people with downs.
I like to ask myself, if my mind was taken away, would I still want to live? If you couldn't do things for yourself, would you still want to live?
I love the logic of "him and his family would have suffered, so we killed him". People only seem to apply that logic to abortions for some reason. But if it is true, shouldn't it be equally valid even after birth? Say you have 2 or 3 year old with down syndrome. Why can't you just club him/her over the head and dump his body in a dumpster?
To me, the big picture in all of this is what is consciousness? Do people with downs syndrome have the same consciousness as "regular" people? Are you equal to someone with down's syndrome?
What is a person? Is it their physical being, or is it their mind? If you remove your mind, are you still you? Does your body continue to live your life?
I think the person is the mind. If the mind is limited, a person cannot live life properly. There's lots of different ways to word what I want to say. I'm not sure if I'm expressing it effectively or even how I want to express it.
Right now, it's unknown what consciousness is. We know so little. Right now, if we perceive consciousness to be one thing, and people with mental disabilities lack that one thing, are they really alive under our current understanding? Is it cruel to keep them alive? Is it cruel to have them living such a restricted and limited existence?
My wife is 39 and we don't have kids. It's now or never with her, and Down's Syndrome is something I think about a lot. I don't want a down's syndrome child. No one does. I don't want to live the rest of my life looking after a toddler. It's a huge burden.
I also have an aunt who had a child with severe autism. She's probably in her 30's now, I guess, but she never developed past her toddler years. I know my aunt loves her. It's her child, of course she loves her, but I've also seen the damage it's done to my aunt and her life. So much pain and struggle. I don't want to live that, and I don't think any rational person would choose to live that way.