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Appreciate the feedback. But it's beyond just the gf thing the whole reason it is this way is because I've avoided normal social interaction for a decade at least. Esp when you do that from a young age it hurts. I have trouble meeting, talking to new people, let alone womens who I don't already know (friends/sisters of friends).
The 18 year olds today were literally running in recess and lining up to use the bathroom when I was graduating HS with other fresh up-and-coming young men. Ya know?
Now many of my friends are moving forward because they already have that experience with girls and don't even worry, but I'm just taking my baby steps. I offer hardly anything to conversations among us besides money making and other discreet stuff I do, god-forbid I mention Sherdog
Lol
Cheers.
So, you come to the party fashionably late. Better late then never brah.
Work on it. Make social skills a priority in 2017, making new friends, and of course, date some new girls. I have a buddy in a similar predicament. He lacks interpersonal skills and a lot of social skills. It hinders him with people meeting and making friends. He thrives in the business world because he is cut throat. He also cleans up with the babes too. Granted, it is short term flings and others base "success" in different ways.
It is not something you are incapable of. Likely, you may feel that but, its cognitive dissonance. It is anxiety. It is the feels; who and what you are not in alignment or you interpret things that way. Note, many guys will tell you, the hottest girls after school aren't the hot girls later down the road. Many of the pretty and cuter girls are standouts now. I am sure there is the counter balance to that for the babes. You can be that guy.