Jordan Peterson on what women really want in a man - do you agree?

[WorldofWarcraft]

Do you agree with Jordan's take on what women really want? He goes through what women look for on pornogrpahic websites.

 

[Pwent]

Cliffs I'm pretending to be social at a family event and I can't exactly play Jordan Peterson taking about big black cock porn

 

[choke you]

Came here for teh cliffs also

 

[Thunderflash500]

He mentions in another video that they also find men of equal or higher class. So if a woman makes 50,000 she will find a mate that makes 50,000+.

He's right. Patrice O Neil and Peterson have cracked the female code. They account for every seemingly illogical thing women do.

 

[Dana_is_your_GOD]

Bitches is cray

 

[blaseblah]

Forget what women want or say they want. Get a decent job, go to the gym, and give zero fucks.

If you obsess over what women want, your biggest problem is most likely your lack of confidence.

 

[Sanshou Kid]

Man, I have a hard enough time figuring out what I want, never mind worrying over what a whole gender wants.

You could just treat people on a person-to-person basis, but I suppose that would be stupid, right?

 

[Undying Poster]

Man, I have a hard enough time figuring out what I want, never mind worrying over what a whole gender wants.

You could just treat people on a person-to-person basis, but I suppose that would be stupid, right?

lol @ acting like there aren't general things that each gender wants.

Of course individuals have their own things but in a thread like this but obviously this isn't about the individual.

Things like height and wealth are universally loved on every corner of earth

 

[Sanshou Kid]

lol @ acting like there aren't general things that each gender wants.

Of course individuals have their own things but in a thread like this but obviously this isn't about the individual.

Things like height and wealth are universally loved on every corner of earth

Eh, just feels like every day we get what amounts to "Bitches are crazy, they only want rich, tall guys!" threads.

You're right though, there are general things each gender wants, would be daft to argue otherwise.

 

[Pugilistic]

Eh, just feels like every day we get what amounts to "Bitches are crazy, they only want rich, tall guys!" threads.

You're right though, there are general things each gender wants, would be daft to argue otherwise.

These topics are interesting to study from a broader sociological perspective, but it's silly to see guys try to find generalizations in a whole gender and try to apply that to their dating life. These threads often just lead whine-fests about women anyway. And to me this is a sign of weakness, a lack of taking responsibility for themselves.

I know the whole women want "rich guys, tall guys, poor me" complaint is proven wrong considering I've dated women who are taller than me, financially more secure than me, and objectively more attractive than I think I am. I'm a pigeon hunting manlet and I've gotten with chicks I shouldn't be able to according to these threads. It was easy to find so much variation in women and people in general. All I had to do was go out a bit more and put myself out there.

I've known guys who incessantly say that women never trade down, meaning they look for men who have more of something, be it money or certain personality traits, as if that's somehow a negative quality of women. You mean you wouldn't do the same? What guy would want to date a women who is uglier, poorer, less educated, worse in bed, and has a shittier personality?

Maybe some of yall meet shitty women because you guys have shitty attitudes regarding them.

 

[My name is]

Chicks just want sexy dudes and dick . Nothing else really matters .. if they see you and are really attracted to you it doesn't really matter what you have going on in life

 

[hbdope]

As long as you're an enigma you'll be attractive. Women don't know what they want which is why you can talk yourself into a girl's pants.

I've been a bipolar, narcissistic, intense individual with my current girl and she won't leave me. Then again, polarity is very attractive when you add in mystery, wealth, sprinkles of kindness, and good sex

 

[Sanshou Kid]

These topics are interesting to study from a broader sociological perspective, but it's silly to see guys try to find generalizations in a whole gender and try to apply that to their dating life. These threads often just lead whine-fests about women anyway. And to me this is a sign of weakness, a lack of taking responsibility for themselves.

I know the whole women want "rich guys, tall guys, poor me" complaint is proven wrong considering I've dated women who are taller than me, financially more secure than me, and objectively more attractive than I think I am. I'm a pigeon hunting manlet and I've gotten with chicks I shouldn't be able to according to these threads. It was easy to find so much variation in women and people in general. All I had to do was go out a bit more and put myself out there.

I've known guys who incessantly say that women never trade down, meaning they look for men who have more of something, be it money or certain personality traits, as if that's somehow a negative quality of women. You mean you wouldn't do the same? What guy would want to date a women who is uglier, poorer, less educated, worse in bed, and has a shittier personality?

Maybe some of yall meet shitty women because you guys have shitty attitudes regarding them.

I guarantee that, if a version of Sherdog, or Reddit or wherever exists where the user base is 90% + women, they same sort of threads would exist, just with "Ugh, guys only want skinny, pretty girls!".

I would say it is an insecurity thing a lot of the time, too much focus on what is thought of you by others and, getting tied up in "what ifs".

Just... figure out what YOU want and shit, then go from there. Because...

Chicks just want sexy dudes and dick . Nothing else really matters .. if they see you and are really attracted to you it doesn't really matter what you have going on in life

And that goes for men, too, I have seen plenty of relationships where, one party is for sure dating someone waaayyyy below the level of what they 'should' be dating, but, at least sometimes, they seem happy.

Not all the time, cos it would appear that a solid 70% or so of relationships are shit, lol.

But, being happy in yourself and, finding someone you like being with... isn't that so much better than focusing on "Yeah, but they make less than me and, I am a 7 and they are like, a 5... it just won't work"?

 

[Thunderflash500]

These topics are interesting to study from a broader sociological perspective, but it's silly to see guys try to find generalizations in a whole gender and try to apply that to their dating life. These threads often just lead whine-fests about women anyway. And to me this is a sign of weakness, a lack of taking responsibility for themselves.

I know the whole women want "rich guys, tall guys, poor me" complaint is proven wrong considering I've dated women who are taller than me, financially more secure than me, and objectively more attractive than I think I am. I'm a pigeon hunting manlet and I've gotten with chicks I shouldn't be able to according to these threads. It was easy to find so much variation in women and people in general. All I had to do was go out a bit more and put myself out there.

I've known guys who incessantly say that women never trade down, meaning they look for men who have more of something, be it money or certain personality traits, as if that's somehow a negative quality of women. You mean you wouldn't do the same? What guy would want to date a women who is uglier, poorer, less educated, worse in bed, and has a shittier personality?

Maybe some of yall meet shitty women because you guys have shitty attitudes regarding them.

One person doesn't disprove a rule. Women of all cultures date men of equal and higher class. You saying you dated a chick richer than you doesn't disprove that.

 

[My name is]

I guarantee that, if a version of Sherdog, or Reddit or wherever exists where the user base is 90% + women, they same sort of threads would exist, just with "Ugh, guys only want skinny, pretty girls!".

I would say it is an insecurity thing a lot of the time, too much focus on what is thought of you by others and, getting tied up in "what ifs".

Just... figure out what YOU want and shit, then go from there. Because...



And that goes for men, too, I have seen plenty of relationships where, one party is for sure dating someone waaayyyy below the level of what they 'should' be dating, but, at least sometimes, they seem happy.

Not all the time, cos it would appear that a solid 70% or so of relationships are shit, lol.

But, being happy in yourself and, finding someone you like being with... isn't that so much better than focusing on "Yeah, but they make less than me and, I am a 7 and they are like, a 5... it just won't work"?

sure there's exceptions and a lot of times people look a lot better when they first meet. They just let themselves go .. but the initial attraction is a huge factor especially with complete strangers

 

[Pugilistic]

One person doesn't disprove a rule. Women of all cultures date men of equal and higher class. You saying you dated a chick richer than you doesn't disprove that.

I just don't see the point in insisting that. Said rules are broken quite often. I'm poor and every serious relationship I had was with someone who had far more financial success than I.
Seems like an attitude that sets up yourself for failure. Why would you want to date a women of "lower class" anyway. Go for the hottest, richest, most awesome girl. If you already assume she won't go for you, then you already lost.

I guarantee that, if a version of Sherdog, or Reddit or wherever exists where the user base is 90% + women, they same sort of threads would exist, just with "Ugh, guys only want skinny, pretty girls!".

I would say it is an insecurity thing a lot of the time, too much focus on what is thought of you by others and, getting tied up in "what ifs".

Just... figure out what YOU want and shit, then go from there. Because...

Oh for sure. I have straight female friends who complain about the exact same things men complain about.

 

[loyalyolayal]

Do you agree with Jordan's take on what women really want? He goes through what women look for on pornogrpahic websites.

Refreshing. I always see him explaining himself outside a university where frea...ermmm...SJWs bitching or on JRE. He should do more of this casual talk & he probably might expand his audience.

 

[Thunderflash500]

I just don't see the point in insisting that. Said rules are broken quite often. I'm poor and every serious relationship I had was with someone who had far more financial success than I.
Seems like an attitude that sets up yourself for failure. Why would you want to date a women of "lower class" anyway. Go for the hottest, richest, most awesome girl. If you already assume she won't go for you, then you already lost.



Oh for sure. I have straight female friends who complain about the exact same things men complain about.

The point is that data exists and it's clear. It's cross cultural and consistent. It has nothing to do with attitude. It doesn't mean individuals can't go on whatever path they want.

Also men and women are completely different. It's odd you even say "Why would you date a chick with less money." Because if she has big ass tits and a personality I don't care about money. I could find her in a dumpster. Men don't care. Women do. Again, the data backs this up. Women are highly selective, men aren't.

 

[Sanshou Kid]

sure there's exceptions and a lot of times people look a lot better when they first meet. They just let themselves go .. but the initial attraction is a huge factor especially with complete strangers

Oh of course. Physical attraction is always gonna be the first impression (well, I guess unless your first interaction is through a chatroom or something). Doesn't make it the be all end all, but it sure as shit counts and, anyone who says otherwise is a filthy liar.

This is all the kind of thing that could be debated til the cows come home though, as the routine threads about it show, lol.

 

[French Canadian]

So women want vampires. Ok...

I think it's important to differentiate what they want in the porno graphic fantasy world and reality.

And I'm pretty sure lesbian porn is the most watched porn for women, according to pornhub data. Doesn't mean your girl is going to dump you to get another girl, nor that she really wants to have sex with another girl.
So guys don't worry about becoming pirates to get more girls !