First of all, blue acted like a little bitch talking to the ref as much as he could. Would have pissed me off too. Second of all, you'd think a black belt might read the rules.
The rule was instated in complaints that Brazilians would often speak in Portuguese to the refs. It is a fantastic rule and a step toward professionalism in the sport.
I skipped to near the end of the match, but I think it might have been premature (or at least the way the ref scored it, it was).
If Jared did not have any other penalties on the score board, then the order should have been this:
1st time talking: Ref raises right hand at a 90* angle, signifying a warning for penalty on that athlete.
2nd time talking: Penalty marked, advantage for opponent.
3rd time talking: penalty marked, two points to opponent.
4th infraction: DQ.
Minor penalties only count in succession with the same infraction, so he would have had to speak four times to the referee. He exceeds this in the little that I saw, but I did not see the ref marking it.
Either way that kick was an accident and not hard at all (good soccer acting though), he was complaining about grips instead of being a good competitor, and all in all whiney. How this thread is in support of his actions at this match I do not understand.*
*He could be a great guy, I don't know, my entire view of him was the last 1:39 of this video.