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We do MMA fight with my father when I'm angry at him
There are people in the world who are into controlling and mindfucking, who always blame others and never take responsibility when there is a dispute, who are not very nice and not very intelligent to boot, who are so steeped in artifice and artificiality yet they see people outside that fake world as the crazy ones...these people can have kids, and while they don't physically or sexually abuse their kids, their kids still grow up in a very unhealthy environment. Dysfunctional family, dysfunctional family members. The kids naturally think it's all their fault when things go astray because the dysfunctional parents think so highly of themselves, so naturally the parents feel that they are blameless in all situations...then the kids grow up and begin to understand what went on as they are trying to heal themselves, to grow...they have relationships and they have children, and their eyes open more and more from the mistakes they make because they had such horrible role models....the end result - they despise their parents.My parents Are amazing people and I love them very much. I have never understood how someone can hate their mother and father, short of extreme physical or sexual abuse. I’m curious if some of you who may feel this way would be willing to explain why. It seems antithetical to nature to despise the people who brought you into this world.
would you hate your dad if he was a deadbeat dad, never paying child support to your mom? how about if he pretends to want to be a good dad once you are older, convinces you to leave your good job and come live near him and follow your dreams? he has you build a restaurant, top to bottom over the course of a year, not getting paid, but with the promise of 50% ownership (and 100% after his money is made back). Meanwhile, your mother is telling you to get it in writing, but he always has an excuse not to and somehow you are naive enough to trust him.My parents Are amazing people and I love them very much. I have never understood how someone can hate their mother and father, short of extreme physical or sexual abuse. I’m curious if some of you who may feel this way would be willing to explain why. It seems antithetical to nature to despise the people who brought you into this world.
This.... x10000Not despise or hate, but don't really like to be around them at all. Made my life a living hell as a child with their horrible life choices. On the plus side, it helped to teach me how to be self-sufficient, and know early on what i never wish to be.
Of course.Damn, are you still cool with your dad tho?
Of course.
I love my dad to bits. A really cool guy who has time for everyone.
My parents Are amazing people and I love them very much. I have never understood how someone can hate their mother and father, short of extreme physical or sexual abuse. I’m curious if some of you who may feel this way would be willing to explain why. It seems antithetical to nature to despise the people who brought you into this world.