Indoctrination/initiation is a dubious distinction here. It is what it is- people being compelled to worship abstract symbols, in most cases before critical thinking skills have developed and with only very limited information about the object of worship. Clear brainwashing. We need to be honest and say "We want our children brainwashed in this area, because we think it will help them."
Kids will see the flag. They can't avoid it. It's in our media and on our buildings, etc. We have a very interesting founding story and a dramatic, twisted national past that is by itself, as the truth of what our country is, the thing that kids will need to evaluate when they grow older. Let's not deny them that opportunity by fucking up their heads with patriotism.
I absolutely agree with this. There are of course societal advantages to unity, cohesion, and national pride. But, IMO, a nation is
not entitled to the pride of it's citizenry. Pride should be
earned. Just as pride in anything, including a religious faith or other value system should be earned.
Loyalty- that they are entitled to. But not pride.
I doubt most people could name one other thing in their lives, other than their religious faith or their national pride, that they are simply proud of
no matter what. And for those that could, I would consider them somewhat delusional.
Not even a Mother, Father, Brother, Sister, Spouse, or child would get unconditional pride. Love-perhaps. Loyalty-Perhaps. But never pride. No matter how much you love your kid, if he takes a shit on the kitchen table at your neighbors house out of sheer petulance, you are not going to be proud of him.
I would even go one step further than that and say a person who was loyal to the country, but looked at it through an unfiltered lens, and saw the nation as it was, warts and all, showing pride when it was warranted, and disappointment when it was warranted, is a more valuable citizen to the nation overall.