You are probably already rich

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Everyone dreams of being rich but do you ever stop to think about what's considered rich and by whom? It's all relative.

Some questions to ask yourself:

1. When you were a kid, what seemed rich to you?

For me, the rich kids were the ones that lived in the good neighborhood a mile away from my ghetto neighborhood. The rich kids had 2 story houses with 2 bathrooms and 4 bedrooms. Their parents would drop them off in cars that weren't embarrassingly old and beat up. They could try out for sports because their parents could afford to pay the various fees and buy the gear. And I distinctly remember one kid that got super Mario 3 the day it came out. And I remember thinking, "I'd give anything to be as rich as that kid."

And now compared to my expectations as a 13-year-old, I AM rich.


2. What would be considered rich in a 3rd world country?

You have people that have to walk miles to fill up jugs of water. They'd give anything just to have a faucet in their house like the "rich Americans" have.

They live in structures that are smaller and not half as nice as my garage. That one blows by mind. That I have a building that's way nicer than their house, and it's just for me to park my car in. How is that not rich?


3. What's your "two chicks at the same time?"

In office space, there's a brilliant moment where Lawrence says if he had a million dollars he'd do two chicks at the same time, and Peter replies, "You don't need a million dollars for that."

And I think we should ask ourselves a similar question. What would really make you feel rich? What would make you happy?

For me I'd feel rich if I didn't have to work anymore. But I don't necessarily need to win the lottery for that. People in the FIRE community are finding ways to retire early all the time, and most of them aren't rich.

So by my own definition, I'm not rich in this regard yet, but it's nice to know that I could be if I wasn't married to a woman that spends too much.


So how about you, shermanos? Are you richer than you thought you were yesterday?
 
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I dreamed of making 6 figures as a kid, as that was what we were told that’s what doctors and lawyers made. It isn’t nearly as glamorous and big time as I was told. Maybe 30 years or so ago, but not now. Not complaining, just the reality of it is not what I was told.

Tbf though, going from a trailer park to now, I might as well be a millionaire by comparison.
 
That's why I'll die with my money. I am vigilant. My money is the source of my income. I'm not afraid to spend, but I act like I'm poor and my money is finite.
Would make a great t-shirt quote,

Elevating your monies.
 
I am rich AF. As fuuuuuuuck.

I write this while floating on my yacht in the Bahamas.




Raised by single mother in the 70's and 80's. I lived in an efficiency apartment, my bedroom was a closet. I know what it's like to come home from school and not have any power. Every year my mom either made my Halloween costume or I went without. My wife and I, in college, were rolling change up, selling books to half price, mowing lawns for the neighbors so we wouldn't get evicted. I got off my job throwing boxes at UPS to go to my other job as a fucking telemarketer. We had a goddamn Hyundai excel with hand crank windows and it was massive upgrade from the '74 Ford LTD her grandmother had given us.


Rich. As. Fuck.






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No. Not rich.

My new neighbors just flexed on me. I'm a fuckin POOR again!

Probably on the goddamn Epstein list.

 
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I've heard an expression; Once starved a dog will always be hungry for the rest of it's life. I was very poor from 18 to 23/4. I won't forget it.
That’s a hell of a way to learn how to fish,

But the lord works in mysterious ways…
 
Other than my family out of every person I know I think I'm the richest. I grew up in a household that always had money, grandparents had money, but none other than my uncle show it.

I don't know 100% for sure about all my friends or coworkers but from the way they talk, well I'm pretty sure. I'm making 6 figures in my late 40s. Zero debt. When my parents pass in the next 10-15 years I'll be a multi millionaire.

Im having a prime bone in rib eye for dinner on a Wednesday because I felt like it. But I'm also making it myself and will eat the leftovers for a few days.

I don't feel "rich" but also, I dont look at prices at the grocery store, the gas station, or major expenses like car repairs, appliances, house, doctor or dentist bills. my kids expenses, dont stress me out at all. Ive got around 3 years of monthly in liquid cash. Plus more in retirement accounts

The older I get the more I realize the Kanye West quote about money is very true for me

Having money aint everything, not having it is
 
Rich is you don't need to work to live well and buy all nice shit you need/want
So no, unless i move into some third world place, i'm not even close to be rich
 
I try to pay myself in joy as much as I can each day.
It's been a great mindset for me.

Financially I'm pretty poor, but the money I do have looks after those I love.
 
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