Social WR Lounge v248: Being short makes my big dong look absolutely gigantic.

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Once again you are getting it wrong, lol. Its not about the victim or the subject matter of the thread. Its about the posts made by posters on here.

You are either purposely being obtuse about what Tonni is trying to say or you are not actually reading these posts and are stuck on what you think Tonni has said.

You going into a thread and saying "I condemn this attack on a POC" isn't what Tonni is getting it. He's targeting the fact that he thinks you only call out leftist posters on this site for their racism against whites but won't do it against rightist posters racism against blacks. A claim that I have said several times is way too hard to prove. Also a claim I have never stated to be my own or to even be true.


are you kidding me? his response to me this morning was just that. I'm not being obtuse, you are just backing your boy and in turn, being dishonest.
 
seriously, what the fuck? can we stop using depression or any other mental illness as an insult. i don't care if it makes me sound like a pussy for saying so, but that's so hurtful. people with depression, likely people you know, struggle every day to keep going. being depressed isn't anything to be ashamed about.
most real depression is silent. it's always the bored tryhard whiny babies that give it a bad rep by constantly asking for attention by claiming they are depressed. real depressed people already feel a sense of shame for having it, and you don't go around yapping about things you are ashamed of.
 
seriously, what the fuck? can we stop using depression or any other mental illness as an insult. i don't care if it makes me sound like a pussy for saying so, but that's so hurtful. people with depression, likely people you know, struggle every day to keep going. being depressed isn't anything to be ashamed about.

If there's nothing to be ashamed of then why be hurt by it? I think you're just having some basic physical reaction to knowing someone is trying to insult you and your brain is making it worse than it is.


Still sending you chocolate.

lol. If it's plain milk or white then our relationship will surely become one of mutual respect and comradery.
 
are you kidding me? his response to me this morning was just that. I'm not being obtuse, you are just backing your boy and in turn, being dishonest.
Notice how he still won’t condemn it. Hmm...
 
Do I still owe you the foot rub from the Positive 3 Gheyberry thread? :oops: My bf could probs do a better job tbh. He might look limpwristed, but he's an actual massage therapist. <45>
Pic of boyfriend and can I get an appointment :rolleyes:
 
If there's nothing to be ashamed of then why be hurt by it? I think you're just having some basic physical reaction to knowing someone is trying to insult you and your brain is making it worse than it is.




lol. If it's plain milk or white then our relationship will surely become one of mutual respect and comradery.
what kind of weird logic is this? first of all, he didn't direct that insult at me. second of all, i mentioned i am on zoloft and xanax yesterday in here. i am very much not ashamed of depression. i'm not ashamed of having a history of suicide attempts or self harming behavior. it's hurtful because the way it's being used as a put down creates a stigma against being depressed and keeps people in silence, preventing them from getting help.

i have worked with severely depressed people for years and the kind of rhetoric thrown around here is exactly why it is so difficult for them to approach their suffering.
most real depression is silent. it's always the bored tryhard whiny babies that give it a bad rep by constantly asking for attention by claiming they are depressed. real depressed people already feel a sense of shame for having it, and you don't go around yapping about things you are ashamed of.
you are gatekeeping depression. it comes in many forms, loud and quiet. don't be so cruel.
 
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