Which woman would you marry?

[TankAbbott4Eva]

Not enough information yet.

I’ve been with both types, and some differences make up the decision.

First, and most importantly which one swallows.

Second, how frequently are the bj’s given out? Are they offered up out of the blue?

These things matter, chick a, I had one similar for a long time not exactly but similar. For the first half bj’s were given out like candy and full load swallows and kept going until it was totally done.

Then one day they came to a screeching hault, no more bj’s ever.
Excuse? This is the mouth I’ll kiss our kids with one day, I can’t do that anymore. Over time her shit became unbearable without the pornstar esc bj’s.

BJs huh? I vaguely remember that.

 

[Lord Commander Palis]

Hmm, you sound...poor.

I've got a rich dad willing to help us out. My wife having one just keeps life balanced. I won't bore you with the ups and downs of dueling parents on both sides (and now they're dueling grandparents). The issues when one set of parents does something and the other set feels like they should do something too. It's a burden I'll keep to myself...woe is me, lol.

Lol I sound poor yet you're the one carried by step-Daddy?

Damn, sucks to be me with my multiple properties, own business and multi-vacations for my 3 kids and beautiful wifey

 

[TheJewBear]

I would go with A. I would never even date let alone marry a 5.5 or even a 6. Minimum threshold for dating for me is a 7. I do like the book parts too. One of my ex's and I used to read in bed together before sleep and it was a chill way to unwind.

I also wouldn't want to date "a real social being" because I'm more introverted. I would prefer a girl with a smaller social circle, but at least a couple of friends would be good. Both of my ex's had ZERO friends and that really sucked sometimes.

Lastly, to say from experience I am positive that a girl with a default good mood/happy state of being can really go a long way versus a girl who is predisposed to dark moods/depression/etc. Like, that's a BIG fucking deal.

 

[TheJewBear]

I'm leaning towards "B" cause the whole not putting out and making me read books seems kinda miserable after a while.

Where did OP say that option A doesn't put out?

 

[TheJewBear]

i cant do overweight

Thinking on this, I potentially could if she carries it well and is down for all the freaky sex shit that I'm into. Also there's overweight and overweight-but-lifts. If a girl has a nice ass and legs but is overweight I could possibly live with it, given the other above criteria.

 

[Fluffernutter]

I married Woman A.

Everything was right on the nose. Except she likes Marvel movies.

 

[90 50]

BJs huh? I vaguely remember that.

Yup, stopped so to the curb with her.

Just got road head from the much much younger current one.

Life’s to short to live without bj’s , if they won’t do it there is always one younger , hotter and dirtier that will.

 

[ignorant MMA fan]

I don't deal with sensitivity, emotional roller coasters and dickhead family members well.

Option B reads as consistent and minimal conflict to me. That's my choice.

 

[Jon Stark]

A. this decision isnt even close.

 

[TheJewBear]

Also, whichever one is Asian.

 

[lsa]

No pictures?
need pix.

 

[Vergilius]

Also, whichever one is Asian.

Sorry, I'm in Scandinavia. Both are pale, blue-eyed women with blonde hair.

 

[Phlog]

Yeah, when I was in my 20'ies I'd always have gone for scenario A. But I was just thinking yesterday how great it would be to have a woman who lifts your mood every time you come into the house.

Yes. Marriage and partnership is so much more than looks.

Ultimately I am most interested in who I love as a person. I want to protect, facilitate and be loved by my wife, I find her a precious commodity in this world, absolutely unique in my experience.

That said removing that from the picture B would be what I'd go for if I was saying now at 40. Looks would obviously be higher than your example because I am recruiting from the upper echelons but all the rest of your option B's characteristics would be my prime goals.

 

[Plutoburn]

I can see myself be with both or neither because you left out one of the biggest factor, which is the chemistry between you and the girl.

 

[ssBaldy]

B is a no go because if she's already 5.5 she'd be 4 in five years.
A seems ok. If bad moods are not to frequent, A.
Also, just for thoughts. My wife used to think that gaming is meh, didn't watch action films, and was not into MMA.
Now she's the biggest Mass Effect fan, huge Marvel fan, and watches best MMA fights with me. And I got into some of her interests as well. You just find quality content and spark interest in each other.

 

[lowlife]

Hmm, you sound...poor.

I've got a rich dad willing to help us out. My wife having one just keeps life balanced. I won't bore you with the ups and downs of dueling parents on both sides (and now they're dueling grandparents). The issues when one set of parents does something and the other set feels like they should do something too. It's a burden I'll keep to myself...woe is me, lol.

I envy you, I have no parents and my in-laws are worthless. I guess it's made us stronger, as we have only each other to lean on, but it sucks.

 

[panamaican]

Lol I sound poor yet you're the one carried by step-Daddy?

Damn, sucks to be me with my multiple properties, own business and multi-vacations for my 3 kids and beautiful wifey

Yup, you definitely sound poor. One generation of moderate success commenting about multi-generations of high level success. If you didn't want to sound poor, you'd appreciate instead of player hate, lol. But this isn't a world you're used to and it's natural to fear what you don't understand.

Slightly more seriously, the old world definition of economic success was measured by leisure time. Bragging about how much someone worked only indicated that they weren't in a position to NOT work. My personal economic philosophy is to make more and work less, not make more by working more. That's hustling backwards.

 

[panamaican]

I envy you, I have no parents and my in-laws are worthless. I guess it's made us stronger, as we have only each other to lean on, but it sucks.

That's a tough situation without doubt. I'm extremely grateful for my situation because I can appreciate how it eases my long term concerns. But it's good that you've a wife that you can lean on. Some people don't even have that. Many of the independently successful people I know rely on their spouse for advice and support, often even choosing to work together in a venture. Your spouse can be your best business partner.

 

[Caudillo]

The hotter one.

 

[Mike]

B. If there's one thing I've learned from my divorce and my friends divorces and shitty relationships, is it won't work if they hate your hobbies or barely tolerate them. It's just going to turn into annoying bitching and whining, and I'm not putting my balls in her purse and giving up the things I enjoy doing.