Come on bro.
You certainly seem smart enough to realize that "fucking over one citizen to improve the wellbeing of another" is something that is perpetuated by both parties.
Conservatives seem to want a hands-off approach to helping people unless you are talking about corporate welfare and bailing out billionaires who make bad business decisions, want no-interest loans, subsidies, no-bid-no-risk defense contracts, etc. Liberals want a hands-off approach unless it's helping a poor schmuck who can't afford health insurance.
Ya, there are people who are lazy and abuse the system. But corporate welfare costs exponentially more.