Having just ended a fruitful arrangement with someone I thought was easy-going, who decided to go full Days of our lives breakdown mode, being suspicious and jealous, I have been contemplating on the subject. It doesn't seem to work in the longer term to have a string-free connection with someone without having to constantly compromise good sex with drama. Where do you draw the line? When does the cons outweigh the pros? To what extent are you willing to be Dr Phil to avoid having to resort to the trusty solo routine? Is there a correlation between level of attractiveness to amount of hysteria that is acceptable?