Opinion What’s your honest opinion on Onlyfan normalisation?

[Bubzeh]

Sad.

Lonely, confidence lacking, incel “men” contributing further to the downfall of our society, while not even getting to touch the bitches that engage in this.

 

[Hellowhosthat]

I do wonder how much of the large transactions are money laundering, it would be a great platform for that to happen on

Yeah it could certainly be that too. From the ones where dudes have posted their pictures though it just looks like guys who bought into crypto early, made a killing and now have a shit ton of money but nothing to spend it on.

At least if they spend some of it on OF girls it goes back into the economy I guess.

 

[italiamusica]

I think it's pretty gross and sad. There are an insane amount of jobs you can do from home, yet so many people want to do something sexual. Before OF and camgirl stuff, none of these people would be "sex workers", but now when you barely have to do any work and get attention and praise 24/7, everyone wants to do it. It says a lot about people, that they want a job where subscribers are constantly saying: "you're beautiful, you're hot, you're a goddess, you're a queen," and whatever else, that's going to create next level narcissism.

I have friends who are sex workers, and I respect strippers/escorts/stuff that takes actual talent, but I don't respect people who want to spend a half hour a day taking a couple pictures and a video and then chill the rest of the time waiting for money to pour in. I saw some OF woman on insta, and literally all she does is post the same videos of her doing some weird dance over and over again, just in different outfits, and guys are paying for this shit. It's really sad.

 

[pugilistico]

It's almost shocking how some people think it's normal or even encourage it. I saw a hot chick on instagram and she had a post talking about how she's a "mattress actress" and doesn't care what people think. Half the comments were "You go girl" "female empowerment" while the other half were shaming her. I don't think we need to necessarily shame people for it, but it's not behavior that should be encouraged. I don't understand how taking dick on camera for money is "female empowerment."

Beauty standards are sexist because it appeals to the male gaze.
Getting fucked on camera so men can jack off to you is feminist.

People are fucking crazy.

 

[Don Quixote]

What do you consider to be making bank?

In this context enough to not have to work or making enough to where they have no motivation to work or find a higher paying job.

 

[Unknown Pleasures]

The digital era has made dealing with people a very very wide expanse with pretty much zero depth. I actually feel very sad for much of the population raised/addicted to their screens. They are largely infantilized shells of real people. Completely unequipped in actually having a meaningful conversation, let alone genuinely loving anybody else, or even genuinely loving themselves.

Putting soul-destroying "sex workers" aka "prostitutes" on the pedestal is one of many horrible ideas of post-modernism, probably just as fucked up as people who think kids should be taken from their parents and raised by the government.

 

[KnightTemplar]

Never used it. There's more than enough free porn without having to pay for extra.

 

[immafan]

No trafficking or physical danger?
Thats not exactly true, my friend, there are just as many dirt bag pimps running Only Fans girls as there are running strippers, porn stars and street corner hookers, sure there are lots of girls doing it for themselves but there is absolutely a dark, seedy, horrible side to this part of sex work just as there is with all the others

The sex industry has a very seedy side, agreed.

 

[immafan]

I mean it should remain an enormous risk/gamble.

For every girl who makes 20,000 dollars a month or whatever they’re claiming there will be 10,000 girls who show their butthole and don’t make any money.

And they will forever have to live with the fear and anxiety of living a lie and being discovered or the shame of their parents/children knowing and the inevitable alienation of everyone you come to know in the future.

So…..lol good luck with that.

Bingo,

Where do people get this idea that Only Fans is paying money hand over fist, it's not true. As you said, the vast majority aren't making a lot. Also, a lot of porn sites are posting OF material so some folks are getting it free.

Not to mention porn will be forever, there's no going back.

 

[immafan]

or people who have daughters who don't feel comfortable with a world that tells them they should throw away their dignity for money

Don't have daughters myself however, I have female family members. I wouldn't any of them doing it, not at all. For many, they're going to find that they eventually have to do more and more. They don't speak on the ramifications either.

 

[Blunderbuss]

In this context enough to not have to work or making enough to where they have no motivation to work or find a higher paying job.

I only know one OF girl and the highest she ever ranked on there was in the top %15 or so, and even then she was only making $500 a month, but she also is a camgirl and is on 40 hours a month and makes low six figures (yearly). So the huge majority don't make nearly enough from OF alone, but many are also camgirls.

 

[Scerpi]

i did

so does rachel dolezal, a few armless lasses, charlie sheens daughter, a funny korean lady i follow on IG ( i was most surprised by this one - sad and happy at the same time)

My neighbor does... She's pretty hot

 

[Scerpi]

Nothing different than this than Escorts.

Same shit really.

Far worse really...

At least escorts hang out and pretend to like you in real life. There's some one on one interaction even if there's no sex involved. And for some guys (even with money), enjoying a night out with a good looking woman and no strings attached is appealable considering the time and drama of managing an actual relationship.

Don't like how things are going? Just cut em loose.

I don't understand the OF thing at all. What are the guys getting from it? There's a ton of free online porn of any type you can imagine.

Even dudes at strip clubs have a slight chance of taking someone home... extremely slight, but in the end, you get to have real life boobs with glitter lotion rubbed across your face. I'm not a big fan of strip clubs either. I'm too stingy with money