Welp, I don't think she'll be going on a second date with me (date brahs)

[John Wang]

So went out for drinks with this girl that a know through work(she is the receptionist at a nearby business we do business with) She's always seemed like a firecracker. Brown hairs, brown thighs, possibly latina ethnicity.

Anyways we met at a sports bar and I payed for her drinks and pulled her chair out, real gentleman chit.

I guess it is quite obvious I haven't been in the dating game for a while because I could not hold a fackin' conversation for anything. Felt really bad. I did make her laugh a few times and I even brought up that I post on a forum(did not mention which forum exactly because I didn't want her snooping) but I did mention @Slobodan and @Dr Hannibal Lecter a few times throughout the night. I think they may have put her off because I talked about them often and she started playing on her phone a lot and looking around like she was bored as fire

We had two drinks a piece then I told her I needed to get going(because I was super uncomfy with the whole thing)

I guess it was good practice :/

 

[Crono7]

Man holding a conversation is like my only skill. I can talk to just about anyone.

I've gotten to the point where i kind of expect her to talk. Instead of me talking non stop.

I had coffee with this girl one time, real talk she didn't fucking talk at all, she said she prefers to listen. Fuck that shit.

 

[John Wang]

Man holding a conversation is like my only skill. I can talk to just about anyone.

I've gotten to the point where i kind of expect her to talk. Instead of me talking non stop.

I had coffee with this girl one time, real talk she didn't fucking talk at all, she said she prefers to listen. Fuck that shit.

What do you do?! HELP ME

do you just ask a bunch of questions?

 

[oleDirtyBast4rd]

You sound poor and ugly

 

[John Wang]

You sound poor and ugly

Neither as fuck

 

[oleDirtyBast4rd]

On a serious note if they won't engage you in conversation, make them pay for their own drink and bounce. You aren't there to babysit

 

[John Wang]

On a serious note if they won't engage you in conversation, make them pay for their own drink and bounce. You aren't there to babysit

Well she did seem interested at first, asking me questions and stuff. Towards the end of it she kinda of stopped engaging and at the very end when I made a 'walkie talkie static noise' and said "mission failed", she didn't even laugh at it

 

[oleDirtyBast4rd]

Well she did seem interested at first, asking me questions and stuff. Towards the end of it she kinda of stopped engaging and at the very end when I made a 'walkie talkie static noise' and said "mission failed", she didn't even laugh at it

Lol mission failed indeed

 

[John Wang]

Lol mission failed indeed

Looking back it was prob a dumb thing to say. My ex would have laughed at it

 

[EmpireShallFall]

Was this your first date ever? Lmfao.

 

[neverwas]

 

[Bobby Boulders]

Guys.

 

[EmpireShallFall]

Should have told her you know @Clippy and @VroomyJeeps imo.

 

[Strychnine]

Just be yourself man. If she's not into it, guess what? Women are like buses, they'll be another one along in 10 minutes. Also, don't expect every female to be like your ex.

Open your mind. Also, if they're not picking up what you're laying down, then bounce. Life is too short to sell yourself short.

 

[BenRichards]

Lol at bringing up message boards on date

 

[choke you]

Should've showed that bitch your penis bitches love penis

 

[strike63]

Man keep the "posting in forums" to yourself. And did you mention those other guys by their user names?

Maybe look for girls in other forums, at least is a common interest then.

 

[Brampton_Boy]

You know your game needs work when you start mentioning forum posters on a first date.

I think you will do fine once you relax and begin to open up a bit more. It is always a peculiar experience attempting to re-enter the dating pool after being in a long term relationship. The comfort and familiarity you once took for granted is gone - what would be a quiet moment with a girlfriend is an awkward silence with a stranger.

Practice makes perfect my friend - get back out there.

 

[Fedorgasm]

I used to have trouble making conversation. Turns out I just hadn't lived an interesting life up to that point.

Since then I've experienced a ton of shit, which had given me all kinds of funny or interesting stories to tell.

Perhaps this might help you.

 

[LATEXXX COMMANDO]

@Slobodan @Dr Hannibal Lecter One or both of you better give Sentinal the time of his life.