Upset by confident fat chick

TS and girl at concert:

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JabToucher said:
What bothers me is, seeing massively overweight people have an enormous amount of confidence.
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Dude... live and let people live.

If someone is fat and happy what is your problem? I don't say you should celebrate their fatness but you should not be bothered by it.

I think you are projecting your own insecurities on her. You do you, and let her do her.
 
JabToucher said:
I attended a pretty large concert tonight. It was pretty damn good too! Only an exceptionally large woman decided to stand right in front of me obscuring my view.

I let it go, as I could move a pace left or right. Wrong!

She's ever so confidentially dancing about without a care in the world, shifting left & right.

We had to completely change locations because of her.

For the record I am not talking about a BBW or a plump but still "ok enough" type chick. She was as wide as she was tall, and yet she was obviously having a great time! With no regard whatsoever about ruining other peoples views!
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7/10

Would read again.
 
LiLoMMA said:
Damn bro... damn.
I really always enjoy and support your posting, but this comes off poorly. Like a bigger girl was having fun, and you judged her and then had to move away before she beat your ass.
Fortunately, it seems like you were able to.

Actually, props to both of you since y’all’s went separate ways (you know, with her staying and you tucking tail and finding a new spot), but at least you two didn’t cause a stupid scene and ruin a pop concert for the kids it was intended for. So props to you, and mad props to the bigger girl making it work.
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Of all the awful shit posted here, a story of a big girl blocking Jab's view is what comes off poorly to you?
 
I'm tall and feel terrible about having to be in front of people at shows... But when it's time to turnip it's time to turn up! Fuck em! And fuck you... Spice girls will come around again, you can get better seats next time!
 
SalvadorAllende said:
Dude... live and let people live.

If someone is fat and happy what is your problem? I don't say you should celebrate their fatness but you should not be bothered by it.

I think you are projecting your own insecurities on her. You do you, and let her do her.
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Fat confidence is actually a big problem for society. We are in the midst of an obesity epidemic. The cost of obesity is not just to the obese individual, but also to the rest of society in the form of wasted medical resources treating obesity related health issues and reduction in worthy and healthy relationship/mating material. It's a severe problem and passive encouragement via the end of fat ostracization is only making the problem worse.
 
JabToucher said:
I attended a pretty large concert tonight. It was pretty damn good too! Only an exceptionally large woman decided to stand right in front of me obscuring my view.

I let it go, as I could move a pace left or right. Wrong!

She's ever so confidentially dancing about without a care in the world, shifting left & right.

We had to completely change locations because of her.

For the record I am not talking about a BBW or a plump but still "ok enough" type chick. She was as wide as she was tall, and yet she was obviously having a great time! With no regard whatsoever about ruining other peoples views!
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I wish I could be as care free as her! :(
 
JabToucher said:
It's not as simple as it seems, what offends me that is.

You constantly see now this push for body confidence and loving your own skin etc!

I am not slim now, but I'm no where near as large as I used to be. It look a lot of hard work to lose weight.

What bothers me is, seeing massively overweight people have an enormous amount of confidence.

Ten odd years ago you were treated like absolute shit if you were overweight! None of this new mindset existed then.

I'd be lying if I said it doesn't grind my gears seeing obese people have this denial about the way they look! Like this whale acting like she was Britney Spears!
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So fat folks should just be miserable,unhappy fucks with zero self esteem? I mean damn u got to be pretty insecure in ur life an depressed as fuckto be actually upset about fat people having fun an being confident. Sorry man hope it looks up for ya soon
 
Noveltymortar said:
Fat confidence is actually a big problem for society. We are in the midst of an obesity epidemic. The cost of obesity is not just to the obese individual, but also to the rest of society in the form of wasted medical resources treating obesity related health issues and reduction in worthy and healthy relationship/mating material. It's a severe problem and passive encouragement via the end of fat ostracization is only making the problem worse.
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Well.. you have a point.

I'm a pretty fit and obssesive person about my own weight but I try to not bother other people with that. But I see how obesity is a problem for all.

But I guess I don't think shaming fat people solves anything. I think a good example is better.
 
SalvadorAllende said:
Well.. you have a point.

I'm a pretty fit and obssesive person about my own weight but I try to not bother other people with that. But I see how obesity is a problem for all.

But I guess I don't think shaming fat people solves anything. I think a good example is better.
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I think your last sentence is massively wrong! But thanks for contributing.

I only lost weight when I was absolutely sick of being taken the piss out of about it!

If people showed me love and support I think I'd have just continued eating.

This is why I detest people being anti body shaming when it comes to the obesity issue.

I know it might not work for every one but it sure worked for me!
 
JabToucher said:
I attended a pretty large concert tonight. It was pretty damn good too! Only an exceptionally large woman decided to stand right in front of me obscuring my view.

I let it go, as I could move a pace left or right. Wrong!

She's ever so confidentially dancing about without a care in the world, shifting left & right.

We had to completely change locations because of her.

For the record I am not talking about a BBW or a plump but still "ok enough" type chick. She was as wide as she was tall, and yet she was obviously having a great time! With no regard whatsoever about ruining other peoples views!
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Lolol
 
JabToucher said:
I think your last sentence is massively wrong! But thanks for contributing.

I only lost weight when I was absolutely sick of being taken the piss out of about it!

If people showed me love and support I think I'd have just continued eating.

This is why I detest people being anti body shaming when it comes to the obesity issue.

I know it might not work for every one but it sure worked for me!
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IDK.. I think it is personal and you can get there by different paths.

I got more people in shape just by being in shape myself. People around me see me doing good, being happy and they want to emulate that. I could never inspire nobody with words but only by my own actions.

Also I think that when we talk with someone overweight we should not be oriented to aesthetics.. we should talk about health.
 
Plutoburn said:
Something don't add up. If she is as wide as she is tall, how the hell can she not be bbw or a super fat chick. Even if she is very short, the proportion is still wrong and would not obscure TS view.
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TS is only 12 maybe
 
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