I have not looked into this more than what Alexa Herse wrote, and then on Andres instagram where he denies everything.
These are always tough, when you have no more evidence (or is there?) than what people say, word against word.
I have been in this nightmare, perhaps that is why I wait before I judge. The mother of my children wanted to move to another city, I didn't. One day, she said I wouldn't be getting my kids on my week. Went silent for 2-3 weeks, I was worried, angry.. Then a knock on the door, 4 policemen. She had accused me of sexual assault on one of my children. 8 months of nightmare followed, in the end, I was freed of everything. Just lies. And even after that, she tried to accuse me of rape and assault on her, but by now I guess social service and the police understood and never investigated.
Her family, who always took my part in conflicts we had when we where together, took her side in the first case, said I was capable of things etc. Never trust ANYONE.
This is just a short version of something that changed my life, even if I "won" Im still broken because of all that, lost the relationship I was in, lost friends.. Some probably because even if you are not guilty, the rumour is always there. Some friends I lost because of depression, I just had energy for my kids.. Anxiety, depression, tired. All because one person didn't get what she wanted.
It just.. It's fucked. Perhaps some people don't believe the girls because they know some actually lie about this stuff, and if it is a lie, nobody still wants to be affiliated with Andre in the future, his life is fucked even if he is not guilty.
If he is guilty, rott away somewhere or die, I have a daughter I can't imagine someone molesting her.. But man it is so easy to destroy a life now, specially with internet, social media and forums.
I wish we had truth serums, like 100% accurate in cases where there are no evidence more than words.
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