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Ever since I started training, BJJ has been a top priority in my life. Throughout my life I've always felt that I've never stuck to things I've started and I wanted to change that so I committed myself to training. The downside of this was sacrificing a social life and money. It may have even cast a role in my last relationship with my long term girlfriend.
I do see where Bill is coming from and I've realized it myself. Jiujitsu is not the end all be all to life. Balance and moderation are everything. Jiujitsu does make me happy, but if I don't concentrate on maintaining the relationships I have in the "real world" my training suffers and so does my regular life. It's easy to escape your problems when you're on the mat, but you can only train for so long before you have to go back to reality.
That said, I usually train 6 days a week and try to compete fairly regularly, all while maintaining a healthy social life. I've also picked up other activities so that I don't become dependant on BJJ to feel productive.
I do see where Bill is coming from and I've realized it myself. Jiujitsu is not the end all be all to life. Balance and moderation are everything. Jiujitsu does make me happy, but if I don't concentrate on maintaining the relationships I have in the "real world" my training suffers and so does my regular life. It's easy to escape your problems when you're on the mat, but you can only train for so long before you have to go back to reality.
That said, I usually train 6 days a week and try to compete fairly regularly, all while maintaining a healthy social life. I've also picked up other activities so that I don't become dependant on BJJ to feel productive.