To mess with or not to mess with (girl related)

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Ok so I've recently been talking to this hot girl, I've seen her around school fairly often for like the past 3 months and I finally said fuck it and went up and talked to her, after a few days I got her number, we texted back and forth a bit and then I proceeded to try to set up a date. We agreed on a date and time, when the day came I texted her and she replied after like 2 hours, I asked if she was ready and I was gonna pick her up. Never got a reply back, I said fuck it and just went about my day.

I decided to do a bit of "research" on her after that (don't know why I didn't do it before, slipped my mind), I looked up her number on the FB friend finder thing and saw some red flags, first off she seemingly may have a BF, next off she posts some hoodrat ass shit, posts nothing but money, drugs, drama, sex..etc. From looking at her and from the times I've talked to her I didn't think she's like that, at least not to that extent. She seems a slut from what I've gathered, and I usually try not to fuck with these types of girls. Anyways....

I saw her again 2 days later, she said hi to me and gave me a hug and told me to come talk to her later. Didn't get a chance to talk to her that day, but saw her again like 2 more days later, she told me about the whole date incident and that she forgot about it and thought I was gonna be mad, I told her I wasn't trippin and we talked and hung out for like an hour or 2, she was asking if I had a girlfriend, saying sexually suggestive things, touched my ass, was trying to hold my hand and some other things.

Ok, so here's where I want you sherbros opinions, this chick is obviously not gf material, as the saying goes, you cant make a hoe into a housewife. I usually try to avoid girls like this because tbh I'm not about all that shit. She's hot though and tbh I am considering just going with it to have some fun and hit it a few times. So anyone with any experience with girls like this? Should I proceed and hit, or avoid?

And yes my biggest concern is not knowing how many dudes she's banged and im not trying to catch anything.

Edit: for those asking for pics, I wont post her real one, but for reference I'd compare her hotness to about this girls level. The people telling me to bang will probably rise I imagine.

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What do you mean by seen around? You see her around in social circles or work or something?
 
Sure, I'll let you bang bro, but end it before the banging incidents hit double digits.

That's the discipline.

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You seem like you're secure and understand your worth. There's literally no reason not to have some fun, as you understand that that's all this should be about.

Go for it
 
I'm going to take the opposite viewpoint of my brethren here.

I don't think you should do it. She's drama, she's ghetto, she may have a boyfriend who may get his friends to jump you, and if she's that big of a slut then she may have an STD.

Honestly is all that worth 10 minutes of fun?

There's plenty of chicks to bang in this world. None of them are perfect but most of them are going to be less hassle than this broad.
 
I wouldn't. Sounds like a lot of potential drama for meaningless casual sex. Not the popular view I'm sure
 
First off, you wanting to fuck or you wanting to fuck with?

First off, don't judge a bitch for posting a bit of hood rat shit. It the modern woman's way of showing independence without being a SJW. I would rather a bitch post about PMW (pussy money weed) at the college age than SJW bullshit.

A SJW is generally not emotionally developed enough for a relationship. Fuck SJWs, if you're into weird shit just throw it out there and complain about kink shaming. It's a sellers market for that, and I'm selling the D.


Straight up though, it's reading like you've shown your interest, she's a bad bitch, and you've been relegated to side dick. The only times she's going to message you are when she's feeling self conscious, or fighting with her bf.

If you really want to smash, just fuck one of her friends, it will be a constant reminder thrown in her face. If you aren't over eager she's going to try and figure out what all the fuss is about when she's single.
 
I'm going to take the opposite viewpoint of my brethren here.

I don't think you should do it. She's drama, she's ghetto, she may have a boyfriend who may get his friends to jump you, and if she's that big of a slut then she may have an STD.

Honestly is all that worth 10 minutes of fun?

There's plenty of chicks to bang in this world. None of them are perfect but most of them are going to be less hassle than this broad.

Best response by far. Listen to this.
 
Fuckin social media talkin another one out of some sex.

Go by your own interactions, you're in college, social media posts are all gonna be dumb as hell.


Also CALL the girl to confirm a date, none of this text shit. I'd have "forgotten" about you too.

Good luck
 
I'm gonna give the same advice I always give in these types of threads: Fuck her Mom. Seriously.
 
Don't chase her mate reverse the roles put her in the friend zone act nice when you see her but don't suggest dates or catching up. Trust me if she's interested she will start chasing you and then you will have the upper hand.
 
I'm going to take the opposite viewpoint of my brethren here.

I don't think you should do it. She's drama, she's ghetto, she may have a boyfriend who may get his friends to jump you, and if she's that big of a slut then she may have an STD.

Honestly is all that worth 10 minutes of fun?

There's plenty of chicks to bang in this world. None of them are perfect but most of them are going to be less hassle than this broad.

back when, these are all the reasons I would get involved. Play it by ear, have some fun, raise a bit of ruckus but nothing serious. Use a caaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahndom and what happens happens. Back when I was a young man just trying to experience the world.

Also TS, plenty of people change. Settle down and what not. You silly.

Follow a 70/30 mix of penis/brain.

Go forth.
 
would need pics to give you proper answer. also get her to send you titty pics and let me see those to.
 
I´ll let you bang bro ... just dont fall inlove, get her pregnant or catch a disease.
But i dont know if your up to the task tho, cause it seems that she has the upperhand on you ... you should be the one asking questions , have you asked her if she has a boyfriend ? Have you asked her if she is looking for a serious relationship or just wants to have some fun ?
 
She's a manipulator and reeks of drama.

I'm sure she'll let you fuck her but there's always a price. She'll want something from you, or you may end up dealing with her crazy boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, or some STD bullshit. At some point, she'll expect and ask you for something - money, drugs, a ride at 3 a.m., bail her out, an abortion, help moving out of her apartment... it's always something, guaranteed. And if you end up finding a decent girlfriend several months down the road, this bitch will turn up, guaranteed. Might be late night texts, facebook posts, or just showing up out of the blue.

She's already blown you off once. She's got zero respect for you. But, she'll still smile, talk and flirt with you, because that what she does with every man she meets. If she's as hot as you say, she knows she can fuck just about any guy she wants. She's toying with you, and is clearly well versed in using her pussy for leverage.
 
PLEASE HELP!!!

Sherdog, I need some advice- SHOULD I FUCK THE HOT CHICK OR NOT????


hmmmmmm, TS- this is such a hard decision.....





What the hell is going on with kids these days?
 
Dude just fuck her and wear a condom.

And of course no pics. Fuuuuck!!!
 
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