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While I certainly do not condone embarrassing someone publicly for their weight, I also do not condone teaching our kids being over weight is ok if they have the power to do something about it.
We seem to have no problem or issue pushing kids to be their best intellectually, to strive for good grades and to NOT accept mediocrity when it comes to learning. We want the kids to strive for excellence. Few tell kids you are ok the way you are so don't worry about trying to learn more or to push your boundaries. But sadly when it comes to being over weight there seems to be far too many who think pushing your kid to achieve excellence is a bad thing simply because the kid might struggle or fall short. Imagine if the same parents took that tact with education and because a kid might fall short of excellence they told them it was ok to not try.
Whether it is intellect or fitness kids should be pushed to challenge their boundaries and not accept mediocrity. The very real potential outcome of failure should never be a reason to not push that kid. Learning to deal with that failure provides far more valuable lessons than avoiding it.
We seem to have no problem or issue pushing kids to be their best intellectually, to strive for good grades and to NOT accept mediocrity when it comes to learning. We want the kids to strive for excellence. Few tell kids you are ok the way you are so don't worry about trying to learn more or to push your boundaries. But sadly when it comes to being over weight there seems to be far too many who think pushing your kid to achieve excellence is a bad thing simply because the kid might struggle or fall short. Imagine if the same parents took that tact with education and because a kid might fall short of excellence they told them it was ok to not try.
Whether it is intellect or fitness kids should be pushed to challenge their boundaries and not accept mediocrity. The very real potential outcome of failure should never be a reason to not push that kid. Learning to deal with that failure provides far more valuable lessons than avoiding it.