The Push Pull flirt game

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Pretty interesting video and it makes sense. Basically, you do this with a new girl to compliment her and show interest but without being offputting and awkward.
You do not use this on a girl you are already dating or fucked already.

So, basically you give a woman a compliment which is the pull--but this can lead to a weird awkwardness as she accepts the compliment. To avoid this so you have the compliment and take the edge off her accepting it, you tell a joke-- the push. The joke is not insulting her. It can be slightly self deprecating or just a joke in general.

I think I do this naturally sometimes but it is cool to see it broke down like this and to use it.

Yes, I used it on my accountant last week. She is hot and has glorious tits.
I didn't hook up with her or anything, but I can see how it would be effective in a real muff getting sitch.

PS- ignore the video maker's face
 
this is another technique guys use who don't feel comfortable being around women. joking around is a natural part of interacting with women. when you're comfortable with women, you do stuff like this automatically.
 
IIIIIIII said:
this is another technique guys use who don't feel comfortable being around women. joking around is a natural part of interacting with women. when you're comfortable with women, you do stuff like this automatically.
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Make the girls laugh and you're in.
 
IIIIIIII said:
agreed. just be a fun guy. it ain't rocket science.
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For me, I just pretend I'm a hunk and say shit like:

"I feel like a piece of meat."

"Are you only going out with me because of my good looks?"

Pretty much just say what girls usually would say. Works wonders.
 
IIIIIIII said:
this is another technique guys use who don't feel comfortable being around women. joking around is a natural part of interacting with women. when you're comfortable with women, you do stuff like this automatically.
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So you say this "another technique guys use who don't feel comfortable being around women"
then say this "when you're comfortable with women, you do stuff like this automatically"

So this is a tech you use when you do not feel comfortable around women, but when you are comfortable with women you do it automatically???
You want some jumbo shrimp?

I think that people do this a lot, but don't analyze it. Most likely, we all do it some of the time but not all of the time. But knowing it, you can always have it planned out.

highkicknomore said:
Make the girls laugh and you're in.
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Right, but this is very specific time for when you compliment them but don't want the awkward acceptance part. Its really for when you first meet them.
 
Just be a genuine person that isn't a douche bag and the right kind of person appreciates it. People try to make this shit so complicated
 
I just ask if they wanna make 14 dollars the hard way
 
With the exception of the first, these women were flirty themselves.... still good points though.
 
Skip Reming said:
So you say this "another technique guys use who don't feel comfortable being around women"
then say this "when you're comfortable with women, you do stuff like this automatically"

So this is a tech you use when you do not feel comfortable around women, but when you are comfortable with women you do it automatically???
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what i mean with what i'm saying, is if you consciously think about poking fun at a girl, and use this, "push/pull" technique, then it's not natural, and it's not you. when you don't think about it and just do it, it's not a technique anymore, and it's just you being you.

it's like playing an instrument or riding a bike. the moment you stop focusing on how you're doing what you're doing, and just do it, you've figured it out and it's a part of who you are.
 
It's no different than a job interview.
 
Skip Reming said:


Pretty interesting video and it makes sense. Basically, you do this with a new girl to compliment her and show interest but without being offputting and awkward.
You do not use this on a girl you are already dating or fucked already.

So, basically you give a woman a compliment which is the pull--but this can lead to a weird awkwardness as she accepts the compliment. To avoid this so you have the compliment and take the edge off her accepting it, you tell a joke-- the push. The joke is not insulting her. It can be slightly self deprecating or just a joke in general.

I think I do this naturally sometimes but it is cool to see it broke down like this and to use it.

Yes, I used it on my accountant last week. She is hot and has glorious tits.
I didn't hook up with her or anything, but I can see how it would be effective in a real muff getting sitch.

PS- ignore the video maker's face
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I'd only stop kicking Russell Brand when my feet started to hurt. But he did manage to pull Prime Katy Perry, so he must have Game.

He's still a wanker, though.:)
 
Just obviously have a lot of money, works like a fucking charm. Or so I've been told.
 
IIIIIIII said:
what i mean with what i'm saying, is if you consciously think about poking fun at a girl, and use this, "push/pull" technique, then it's not natural, and it's not you. when you don't think about it and just do it, it's not a technique anymore, and it's just you being you.

it's like playing an instrument or riding a bike. the moment you stop focusing on how you're doing what you're doing, and just do it, you've figured it out and it's a part of who you are.
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But the thing is you are not really poking fun at the girl. As far as being natural or not, that depends. I can learn a lot of techniques and use them on people and they become natural.
It is like playing an instrument, and if you learn how to play and all the chords and scales and etc it is much better than just strumming a guitar blindly.

And like I said, most of us do it without knowing we are doing it, but once you know you are doing it you become better at it.
 
KnightTemplar said:
I'd only stop kicking Russell Brand when my feet started to hurt. But he did manage to pull Prime Katy Perry, so he must have Game.

He's still a wanker, though.:)
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I used to think so, too.

I watched a documentary he did about overcoming addiction, and he seemed like a decent enough guy.
 
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