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In many cases the parents don't care or are too busy to be sufficiently involved.My wife is currently working at a middle school with very low income students (90% free or reduced lunch). Those problems you describe are all too common. I feel your pain. Seems to be pretty impossible to expel anyone from there. They just go to self contained ebd
I remember once in middle school this delinquent kid was called up by the teacher and told to call his parents since he was acting up like usual. He called a few numbers and no one answered. So the teacher tells him to call someone and the kid says he can call his uncle. The uncle picks up and the teacher starts telling him that so-and-so is acting up. After a few seconds he looks to the kid and tells him "He says he doesn't know who you are" and the kid takes the phone and tells him "I'm x's son" and then passes it back to the teacher.
The teacher had a word with the uncle but at that point we all knew it didn't matter, how much influence can you have over your nephew if you don't even know his name? He was a little POS and I laughed internally at first but then I did feel bad for him. None of my extended family live in the US and most aren't fluent in English but if you called any of my aunts or uncles I know at least they'd recognize my name.