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Opinion The Cotradictions of the Conservative Mind

Fine. It was a made up conversation. I have no friends in real life and only talk to people on internet message boards.

Are you happy now?


The post was inspired by one particular recent conversation, but it is an abstract of many conversations we've had over the years-- about healthcare, UBI, education, taxes, etc.

Lol, I really didn't think people would find it so difficult to understand that I am summarizing a reoccurring pattern, not writing a transcript dialogue.

Plug in UHC, plug in tuition free college, plug in family leave policy, plug in mandatory vacation time. The details of the objections change, but the same basic pattern holds: "That works there, but it can't work here because [insert a bunch of untested reasons]..."
He already had a general idea of the kinds of topics you meant. He’s just pretending not to because he thinks it’s an easy way to score a point. Him and his ilk tend to post like that because they aren’t winning arguments on merit.
 
The Modern Left

Women’s Rights > Men’s Rights
Trans Rights > Women’s Rights
Homeless Rights > Tax Payer Rights
Illegal Immigrant Rights > Citizen Rights
Muslim Rights > Christian Rights
Criminal Rights > Law Abiding Rights

It’s all emotion based victim based politics
 
Talking politics with my best friend, who has become a conservative as we have gotten older, can be exhausting. I'm sure he feels the same about me.

From my perspective, what I cannot figure out about him is this: he takes great pride in his patriotism, yet he spends almost all his time in our conversations arguing about why things that work EVERYWHERE ELSE in the world CANNOT work in America.

It's so strange to me how people who claim to love the country the most seem to think we are capable of accomplishing the least in terms of tangible action to improve our lives.

It's like a type of reverse American exceptionalism.

I can't understand this thinking, and I certainly cannot understand how it exists in someone who claims to be patriotic.

If you love your country, why don't you believe in it and your fellow citizens agency to make meaningful change?

Stupifying.

I'm sure everyone else can chime in with their own perceived contradictions. I'm really curious to see if a conservative can explain the above to me, though.
I'll take a start at one of the big ones. Everyone wants free medical coverage. But can we maintain our freedom if we give the government control of our health?
Cigarettes and alcohol, junk food and recreational drugs etc. could be completely banned or rationed in the name of maintaining the health of Americans. You could be told you can only see doctors in your area and which hospitals to go to. Is this acceptable? Not to me. Look at the overreach declaring guns a medical emergency, there is no limit to what they will do to get what they want. Look at the assisted suicide rate and the acceptance reasons for it.
Before you jump to the normal irrational response, the system is broken and I didn't know what actions it'll take to fix it. More government oversight? regulation of profit for the insurance industry? I didn't know, but I do know EVERYTHING our government does is wildly inefficient.
 
Talking politics with my best friend, who has become a conservative as we have gotten older, can be exhausting. I'm sure he feels the same about me.

From my perspective, what I cannot figure out about him is this: he takes great pride in his patriotism, yet he spends almost all his time in our conversations arguing about why things that work EVERYWHERE ELSE in the world CANNOT work in America.

It's so strange to me how people who claim to love the country the most seem to think we are capable of accomplishing the least in terms of tangible action to improve our lives.

It's like a type of reverse American exceptionalism.

I can't understand this thinking, and I certainly cannot understand how it exists in someone who claims to be patriotic.

If you love your country, why don't you believe in it and your fellow citizens agency to make meaningful change?

Stupifying.

I'm sure everyone else can chime in with their own perceived contradictions. I'm really curious to see if a conservative can explain the above to me, though.

It's possible that he is trying to shut down this conversation, especially if you are the one initiating it.

There are a couple of rules, I've learned when it comes to politics:

#1 - Everyone has an opinion, of which they are mostly ill-informed. It is called "the illusion of explanatory depth." We believe things that we cannot even explain, let alone intelligently rationalize to an informed interlocutor.

#2 - No one is interested in having their opinions forcibly changed through "friendly" debate. Real changes in opinions take place gradually over years, without coercion or soft pressure, but because of frequent exposure, familiarity and likeability to a discrepant source.

#3 - Despite rabid differences in tribal identification, most people agree on most things--if they could talk about them intelligently and not get triggered by hearing 'enemy' words and slogans.

#4 - The loudest, most extreme voices do not represent the majority in either party. Those are the outliers, the extreme 1-5%. Unfortunately, the media sensationalizes noise and so these extremists are depicted as being the most representative of the 'enemy' when they are far from it.
 
What you describe is not hypocrisy, it’s just logic you do not get. In any case, hypocrisy is a part of human nature and completely unexceptional.

One can love and believe their country is the best, while acknowledging societal and institutional constraints that prevent us from adopting certain things. It’s very simple, but I guess very difficult to understand if you do not share the same worldview.
 
The Modern Left

Women’s Rights > Men’s Rights
Trans Rights > Women’s Rights
Homeless Rights > Tax Payer Rights
Illegal Immigrant Rights > Citizen Rights
Muslim Rights > Christian Rights
Criminal Rights > Law Abiding Rights

It’s all emotion based victim based politics
What gets me is the fact that many on the left will decry systemic racism and state abuse of power, yet at every turn try to give the state MORE control and power… they’re like abuse victims who stay in the abusive relationship hoping that “this time it will be different.”
 
What you describe is not hypocrisy, it’s just logic you do not get. In any case, hypocrisy is a part of human nature and completely unexceptional.

One can love and believe their country is the best, while acknowledging societal and institutional constraints that prevent us from adopting certain things. It’s very simple, but I guess very difficult to understand if you do not share the same worldview.
It's still strange to me that one could call their country the best without believing that it is at least equally capable as other countries at delivering meaningful quality of life outcomes.

Like, if I love my team, I love my team. Great. But I don't say they are the best if they clearly suck and are in like second to last place.
 
The Modern Left

Women’s Rights > Men’s Rights
Trans Rights > Women’s Rights
Homeless Rights > Tax Payer Rights
Illegal Immigrant Rights > Citizen Rights
Muslim Rights > Christian Rights
Criminal Rights > Law Abiding Rights

It’s all emotion based victim based politics
"Trump is Hitler but only cops and the military should have guns."
 
I'll take a start at one of the big ones. Everyone wants free medical coverage. But can we maintain our freedom if we give the government control of our health?
Cigarettes and alcohol, junk food and recreational drugs etc. could be completely banned or rationed in the name of maintaining the health of Americans. You could be told you can only see doctors in your area and which hospitals to go to. Is this acceptable? Not to me. Look at the overreach declaring guns a medical emergency, there is no limit to what they will do to get what they want. Look at the assisted suicide rate and the acceptance reasons for it.
Before you jump to the normal irrational response, the system is broken and I didn't know what actions it'll take to fix it. More government oversight? regulation of profit for the insurance industry? I didn't know, but I do know EVERYTHING our government does is wildly inefficient.
Everything involving humans is inefficient.

The most efficient thing we could do is die and then there would be no more problems to solve.

This is just to say that efficiency in not an end in itself.

If you have a system that is very efficient at delivering shitty outcomes, that's not a win.

And the kicker is that our current system ISN'T even very efficient...

It's possible that he is trying to shut down this conversation, especially if you are the one initiating it.

There are a couple of rules, I've learned when it comes to politics:

#1 - Everyone has an opinion, of which they are mostly ill-informed. It is called "the illusion of explanatory depth." We believe things that we cannot even explain, let alone intelligently rationalize to an informed interlocutor.

#2 - No one is interested in having their opinions forcibly changed through "friendly" debate. Real changes in opinions take place gradually over years, without coercion or soft pressure, but because of frequent exposure, familiarity and likeability to a discrepant source.

#3 - Despite rabid differences in tribal identification, most people agree on most things--if they could talk about them intelligently and not get triggered by hearing 'enemy' words and slogans.

#4 - The loudest, most extreme voices do not represent the majority in either party. Those are the outliers, the extreme 1-5%. Unfortunately, the media sensationalizes noise and so these extremists are depicted as being the most representative of the 'enemy' when they are far from it.
I appreciate the thoughtful response, but I think you are wrong about #2 when you say no one is interested in having their opinions challened. I'm eminently interested in having my opinions challenged through "friendly debate." I welcome it and appreciate it.

I think people who know their opinions are lazy and not likely to hold up to scrutiny are not interested in debate.

The Modern Left

Women’s Rights > Men’s Rights
Trans Rights > Women’s Rights
Homeless Rights > Tax Payer Rights
Illegal Immigrant Rights > Citizen Rights
Muslim Rights > Christian Rights
Criminal Rights > Law Abiding Rights

It’s all emotion based victim based politics
That's a strawman. Give me a tangible example of any of those.

What gets me is the fact that many on the left will decry systemic racism and state abuse of power, yet at every turn try to give the state MORE control and power… they’re like abuse victims who stay in the abusive relationship hoping that “this time it will be different.”
There are a couple of holes in this opinion.

1. Firstly, no one ever equated systemic racism solely with state power. In fact, the only way systemic racism ever has been combatted in this country is through state power. That’s what civil rights and voting rights legislation was all about. Without the imposition of (federal) state power, the South might well be living in Jim Crow apartheid.

2. Currently it is "conservatives" who are trying to centralize and expand state power through the theory of the unitary executive. All of this was spelled out in Project 2025, which is being followed point-by-point by the current administration and mostly being rubber stamped by the "conservative" SCOTUS.

Conservative is in quotation marks because, of course, there is nothing truly conservative about any of it.
 
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What gets me is the fact that many on the left will decry systemic racism and state abuse of power, yet at every turn try to give the state MORE control and power… they’re like abuse victims who stay in the abusive relationship hoping that “this time it will be different.”
They're like 90's Republicans who can't understand that people don't like Big Government telling them what to do. They're like those soccer moms cheering on censoring music, movies and videogames, so they don't have to actually parent.

Not that modern Republicans/Conservatives are totally innocent of that these days, but they've at least loosened their assholes a bit, whereas Democrats/Liberals have puckered right up into demanding a Nanny State.
 
They're like 90's Republicans who can't understand that people don't like Big Government telling them what to do. They're like those soccer moms cheering on censoring music, movies and videogames, so they don't have to actually parent.

Not that modern Republicans/Conservatives are totally innocent of that these days, but they've at least loosened their assholes a bit, whereas Democrats/Liberals have puckered right up into demanding a Nanny State.
We have 650,000 medical bankruptcies a year. Progressives would like for that not to be the case. If not having that means we are a "Nanny state," whatever... render unto Caesar, I guess.

What is the meaning of freedom when you can't access or afford the necessities of life?
 
Everything involving humans is inefficient.

The most efficient thing we could do is die and then there would be no more problems to solve.

This is just to say that efficiency in not an end in itself.

If you have a system that is very efficient at delivering shitty outcomes, that's not a win.

And the kicker is that our current system ISN'T even very efficient...


I appreciate the thoughtful response, but I think you are wrong about #2 when you say no one is interested in having their opinions challened. I'm eminently interested in having my opinions challenged through "friendly debate." I welcome it and appreciate it.

I think people who know their opinions are lazy and not likely to hold up to scrutiny are not interested in debate.


That's a strawman. Give me a tangible example of any of those.


There are a couple of holes in this opinion.

1. Firstly, no one ever equated systemic racism solely with state power. In fact, the only way systemic racism ever has been combatted in this country is through state power. That’s what civil rights and voting rights legislation was all about. Without the imposition of (federal) state power, the South might well be living in Jim Crow apartheid.

2. Currently it is "conservatives" who are trying to centralize and expand state power through the theory of the unitary executive. All of this was spelled out in Project 2025, which is being followed point-by-point by the current administration and mostly being rubber stamped by the "conservative" SCOTUS.

Conservative is in quotation marks because, of course, there is nothing truly conservative about any of it.

Everytime you post I think, "Damn. This poor guy."
 
People want to be know-it-alls,
and rarely want to discuss broader concepts.
 
I'll answer for your imaginary friend then. American exceptionalism doesn't mean that everyone in America is some super talented world beater, it means that the American system of limited government, individual freedoms and constitutional rights was the exception to the rest of the world where monarchy and nanny state were the dominant forms of government. If it meant what you thought it did, then your own argument would fall apart too because nobody would need an expansive welfare state and constant handouts. It wouldn't make sense as a claim about the people anyway because our foreign born population is larger than most of those countries' entire population.

Futhermore, when "progressives" claim "things that work in other countries", they don't actually want them to work here the way they do in those smaller countries, they just want the free shit and want someone else to pay for it. None of the lefties seem to ever suggest someone making $60k pay 40% in taxes like they do in those magical countries with so much "free shit".

I don't want to be on a "group plan" with you fatties, and I don't want to pool my finances ever further with a bunch of losers who don't contribute shit to have a safety hammock that I will never use. When we have a flat tax, you can propose all the goofy free shit you want as long as the tax increases you demand apply to you too.
 
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Talk about contradictions. I'm still waiting for a liberal to give an honest explanation of how DEI doesn't discriminate against white men.
 
Talk about contradictions. I'm still waiting for a liberal to give an honest explanation of how DEI doesn't discriminate against white men.
You'll get that explanation around the same time they explain how poverty causes crime, but somehow also that importing more poor from the 3rd world makes the country safer.
 
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