Tempted to cheat...

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Im married, no kids. Have a so so relationship with the wife. Sometimes things are all good and others days they can be crazy. We rarely have sex anymore, and to be honest, the passion isnt remotely close to when we first met.

Now theres a younger girl i work with....flirty as fck, nice body, very pretty face, and loves working with me. We talk pretty much everyday and yes, do flirt quite a bit. Anytime we grab a bite to eat ....she talks about sex. Sometimes we will be workin....more sex talk. Just how she likes it, how she wants more....how most dont do it for her and such. She is very touchy feely and we almost went a step too far once when we got drunk and took her out for her birthday.

The longer this goes on, the closer we seem to get and the more im compelled to make the move. WTF do i do.....crazy thing is that even though she knows im married, she seems to turn it on anyway.

Its at the point where i almost want her to get serious with someone else so i dont get busted, but then the other side of me doesnt want that to happen....

<Dylan>
 
Don't do it. Try to solve the problems in your marriage. You vowed to do so.
 
Do crazy shit with your wife.

I get the whole ‘this girl aint your wife and she’s freaky as fuck’ thing, but skip it, man.

Having a constant sure thing in a wife is better than some woman. Get the rolling pin out and ram it in her. Shit will be hot as hell.
 
i agree with @Johnson, i don't get the dudes who dont do crazy shit with their wives, isn't that why you married her? cuz she was into the same crazy shit you are?
 
Im married, no kids. Have a so so relationship with the wife. Sometimes things are all good and others days they can be crazy. We rarely have sex anymore,

Well there's your answer. If I have a live-in chef that refuses to cook for me then I'm eventually gonna be dining out
 
Make sure not to catch genital warts/herpes and bring them home to the wife.
 
Easy choice TS, ask 30 year old Sherdoggers what they would do in this situation and do the complete opposite.
 
don't do it, don't be a cheater

nothing but regret will be the outcome
 
Im married, no kids. Have a so so relationship with the wife. Sometimes things are all good and others days they can be crazy. We rarely have sex anymore, and to be honest, the passion isnt remotely close to when we first met.

Now theres a younger girl i work with....flirty as fck, nice body, very pretty face, and loves working with me. We talk pretty much everyday and yes, do flirt quite a bit. Anytime we grab a bite to eat ....she talks about sex. Sometimes we will be workin....more sex talk. Just how she likes it, how she wants more....how most dont do it for her and such. She is very touchy feely and we almost went a step too far once when we got drunk and took her out for her birthday.

The longer this goes on, the closer we seem to get and the more im compelled to make the move. WTF do i do.....crazy thing is that even though she knows im married, she seems to turn it on anyway.

Its at the point where i almost want her to get serious with someone else so i dont get busted, but then the other side of me doesnt want that to happen....

<Dylan>

Don't do it man. Don't ruin your relationship for someone sleezy chick.

It's a phenomenon but for some weird reason chicks always seem to like guys that are taken. For some it's just a thing to see if they can take them or not? Either way man not worth your marriage and the consequences thereof.
 
Sounds like you aren't happy with the wife
If it's an unfixable problem then get out now while you're not tied down with kids.
A couple nuts with a skanky coworker isn't going to be worth the drama.
 
sounds like you have already made up your mind to be honest. and lol@ a "so so" marriage. What the fuck is the point. ESPECIALLY if you dont even have sex?

So you are not mentally on the same page as your wife and dont even get your rocks off to stick around. You dont even have kids.......get a fucking divorce.

Or are you scared of being taken to the cleaners in the divorce settlements? That I could understand. if so, go ahead and cheat
 
Im married, no kids. Have a so so relationship with the wife. Sometimes things are all good and others days they can be crazy. We rarely have sex anymore, and to be honest, the passion isnt remotely close to when we first met.

Now theres a younger girl i work with....flirty as fck, nice body, very pretty face, and loves working with me. We talk pretty much everyday and yes, do flirt quite a bit. Anytime we grab a bite to eat ....she talks about sex. Sometimes we will be workin....more sex talk. Just how she likes it, how she wants more....how most dont do it for her and such. She is very touchy feely and we almost went a step too far once when we got drunk and took her out for her birthday.

The longer this goes on, the closer we seem to get and the more im compelled to make the move. WTF do i do.....crazy thing is that even though she knows im married, she seems to turn it on anyway.

Its at the point where i almost want her to get serious with someone else so i dont get busted, but then the other side of me doesnt want that to happen....

<Dylan>


So instead of spending a bunch of time and effort trying to rekindle your marriage, you want to throw it away for some easy tail?

Pathetic.
 
Fix your marriage, or end your marriage. Cheating is cowardly.
 
She's a SJW plotting to trap you, then have you fired for sexual harassment to get your job
 
Another thread that makes a great case for mgtow... I say have fun with a side piece but don't do it with a girl you work with or else it could blow up in your face. Get an escort.

Edit: changed advice. Don't mess with people you work with if you value your current job.
 
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no kids. no sex. thinking about cheating.

Either re-invest in your marriage big time and try to fix it or take a trial separation, go play around (knowing she may too) and then decide whether you want to try and save the marriage or move on.

You are in a situation where you don't have to be a cheater and get all the guilt and blame that goes with it if you get caught.

Oh but expect that if you do seperate the flirty girl at work might lose interest.
 
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