I think part of the issue people are talking about is you can't "get the respect you give" if a great deal of people are succumbing to immense political hyperbole. Even you're saying Trump is racist. It's bullshit. What happened is you've been fed some out of context quotes and you make a conclusion that isnt supported by reality.
It's the same thing as the gallup poll where Dems though 50% of the people who got Covid were hospitalized. This is so far removed from reality that it's mind boggling so many people think it. Another classic example is the whole issue of black people shot by Police. Ask almost any democrat how many unarmed black people are shot by the police very year and the answer is gonna be either hundreds or thousands, not the correct answer which is about 12.
These are just two examples, but they show how a lot of people can have opinions on facts that are so far divorced from reality that they can potentially take a drastic reaction to something. I dont mean the assassination attempt, I just mean in general. Its how you get people to think you should defund the police, or put non vaccinated people into camps. Yes, these are extreme positions that I dont attribute to everyone on the left. However, I do attribute them to a much higher percentage of the left than it should be given how utterly batshit crazy the positions are.
Before you say "But the right", yeah I know it happens on the right too. Like people who think millions of kids are getting getting trans surgery, when its a much, much lower number. Currently the more batshit insane positions are the left, though.
Jesus, people literally are arguing Trump would end democracy. It's fucking stupid. Yes, he tried to overturn the election.....through a legal means of court trials all of which he lost. People act he almost did it or something. No, he never came close and all of his attempts were laughably ineffective. That means the system is working. Trump can cry about all the shit he wants, it doesnt mean hes gonna beat an entire political/judicial system. Except in your mind. For some reason.