"Islamaphobia" is such a ridiculous word to begin with.
1. You are allowed to criticize ideas.
2. Islam/Muslims aren't a race
3. A lot of the ideas in Islam and not compatible with Western thinking
Just because billions of people believe in something doesn't make it immune from criticism. Islam says it's a crime to be gay and punishment can include death. Women aren't equal to men and must be covered or suffer jail, fine and death. Death is a valid punishment if you leave the religion. Jews and Christians are considered "demis" and must pay extra taxes and live as a lower class to Muslims.
If you live in Western society, you SHOULD be "Islamaphobic" to those ideas because they go against everything we have fought for with equal rights, freedom of speech and freedom of religion.
We have to stop confusing Muslims with Islam. They are two very different debates.