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Try not to beat yourself up about it, nothing you can do but be there to be supportive and a shoulder to lean on if she wants it.It always is. My grandmother lost her first husband on an accident on a construction site, dont know what kind but he didnt make it to next day, all i know. This time it was cancer, been few months (or maybe up to 9 months-a year when they knew it will end like this).
To make things even worse, my mother and uncle were 1 year and 3 year old when their dad died. The mental strenght my grandmam has is something i respect so much. (furthermore if we went to a tennis court right now, i would have a zero chance of winning even single game/set against her. Keep in mind i done tennis myself, went to army mechanized infantry unit and done martials for almost a decade. I am 33 right now so very much a fit man in my prime).
Just feel so useless right now, angry at myself as dumb as it sounds.
Bring her a casserole too