Telling you this we have alot of keiki at my gym and if i caught someone in the bathroom lockerrooms or showers messing around with a dildo or masturbating i would have dragged them out of the gym as well. The man was let in the gym to shower. Seems like they had no issue with that until several kids and members at the gym said the guy was in there doing that sick stuff. Not the place for it dont care if your gay or whatever. Being in a place of business where there are children present or around is 1000% unacceptable. I would have removed that person as well. The bar situation is completely different from this situation. Joe was a patron of the bar if the owners had a issue with the guy they should have removed him or called the police. They have a duty to their customers to protect them just like Joe has a duty to his customers, students and their families to keep that kind of behavior out of the gym. The gym is supposed to be a safe place. Not some place where people are performing sex acts on themselves in the locker rooms.