tommboy said:
yea I got a good pillow but does anyone have any idea if I am supposed to use heat on a certain body part before I stretch it???
You must be referring to warming up (as in getting your heart rate up by running for example) prior to stretching as opposed to walking into the gym and beginning static stretching.
You do not need to apply heat for regular stretching.
The only time I have seen heat used is for rehab work on certain muscles etc... heat /cold treatments. Examples: I had back spasms and the cold/heat treatment, plus certain stretching and strenghtening exercises (and ultrasound treatments) fixed the problem.
If you are concerned about hurting yourself, this is a valid concern. You can hurt yourself if you do the exercises wrong. If you jump straight into the bridging exercises without any prior conditioning, this can be bad. Especially if you try the nose-bridge type exercises.
Run and go through a warm up period, jumping jacks, slow neck rotations, chest stretch, arm and shoulder rotations, hip rotations, stretch legs, calfs, ankles.
More warm ups

ushup, situps. At this point, your body is ready for neck exercises.
Neck exercises can be done safely. The best thing is to work thorugh a fitness trainer or check with a wrestling coach.