Social Milo Yiannopoulos comes out as straight; now "ex-gay"

Bald1 said:
You're a good dude.
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We already familiar, and my empathy sensors involuntarily start going off when I see a brother in distress. It's certainly a lot easier to deal with and help someone IRL but even in virtual spaces, what good is a community if you aren't there for each other? I'm not shy about throwing love towards and expressing how glad I am that the likes of Allo, @Gomi, @BEER, @SRN, @Sakurabaism, @Zer (and apparently @Daverisimo ayy lol) - amongst others whom I won't disclose - are here.
 
Khabib Khanate said:
I don't have the study on hand but yes I do remember reading about how LGBT youth on average have their first sexual experiences earlier than non-LGBT youth.

But in the context of those studies they're not talking about kissing, that's innocuous enough that I doubt that's what they meant. They meant vaginal, oral, or anal sex or maybe a hand job or something. Funny enough gay and lesbian youth actually have a higher rate of unwanted pregnancies than straight youth do. I think it goes to show that the phenomenon is more complicated than the strict categories of the modern zeitgeist assume.
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Huh. I lost my v card a bit earlier than average (14), but looking back, I was pretty desperate to prove I wasn't gay. Turns out I'm bi, though I didn't really come to terms with that until quite a bit later. I never really thought it was part of a trend tbh.

Deorum said:
We already familiar, and my empathy sensors involuntarily start going off when I see a brother in distress. It's certainly a lot easier to deal with and help someone IRL but even in virtual spaces, what good is a community if you aren't there for each other? I'm not shy about throwing love towards and expressing how glad I am that the likes of Allo, @Gomi, @BEER, @SRN, @Sakurabaism, @Zer (and apparently @Daverisimo ayy lol) - amongst others whom I won't disclose - are here.
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Oh god, are we the "homos of sherdog" club now? Lol
 
Daverisimo said:
Oh god, are we the "homos of sherdog" club now? Lol
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^ That... thing, is truly detestable.

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About half of you are legitimately bisexual and I absolutely acknowledge and respect that. It's just that the "one drop rule" is a thing as far as the majority is concerned so yeah, may as well be. Of course, I'd encourage you to drop the women entirely but if that isn't something you want to happen then be careful with the twinks. Before you know it they'll become exclusive and you'll become a full blown "ex-bi" homosexual yourself, many such cases!

On the contrary...

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Deorum said:
We already familiar, and my empathy sensors involuntarily start going off when I see a brother in distress. It's certainly a lot easier to deal with and help someone IRL but even in virtual spaces, what good is a community if you aren't there for each other? I'm not shy about throwing love towards and expressing how glad I am that the likes of Allo, @Gomi, @BEER, @SRN, @Sakurabaism, @Zer (and apparently @Daverisimo ayy lol) - amongst others whom I won't disclose - are here.
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Happy to be here.

On the "one drop rule", the shit is pretty real for bi dudes. I generally don't disclose that I'm bi to women unless I feel truly comfortable. A lot of women just see bi dudes as straight up gay, and homophobes (men or women) don't make the distinction either. A lot of people really think that bi dudes are just gay dudes who are too "scared" to go "all the way gay" or whatever.
 
Daverisimo said:
Huh. I lost my v card a bit earlier than average (14), but looking back, I was pretty desperate to prove I wasn't gay. Turns out I'm bi, though I didn't really come to terms with that until quite a bit later. I never really thought it was part of a trend tbh.
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To yourself or peers around you? It was the latter for me because I already knew the deal but the end result is the same regardless. I don't think I know anyone who started coming of age prior to 2010 (if not later) that isn't true for. The shame and stigma was real shit during adolescence and I was in high school during the mid-2000s. It hasn't actually gone away either, it's just less overt and more implicit.
 
Deorum said:
To yourself or peers around you? It was the latter for me because I already knew the deal but the end result is the same regardless. I don't think I know anyone who started coming of age prior to 2010 (if not later) that isn't true for. The shame and stigma was real shit during adolescence and I was in high school during the mid-2000s. It hasn't actually gone away either, it's just less overt and more implicit.
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A little of both, but more of the former for me if I'm being honest. I knew on some level that I'd had crushes on other boys, but I was DEEPLY in denial about it, so if I could prove that I liked girls, that would prove I wasn't gay (the concept that I could be bi was completely lost on me at that point. It wasn't until I was 19 that I repeated the "experiment" with a guy). I also went into adolescence in the 00's, (and in Kentucky no less), so being gay was the worst possible thing a guy could be as far as I knew, and being bisexual was no different.

BEER said:
Happy to be here.

On the "one drop rule", the shit is pretty real for bi dudes. I generally don't disclose that I'm bi to women unless I feel truly comfortable. A lot of women just see bi dudes as straight up gay, and homophobes (men or women) don't make the distinction either. A lot of people really think that bi dudes are just gay dudes who are too "scared" to go "all the way gay" or whatever.
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Oh, I know this very well. I bought into this line of thinking myself for a long time. Even now, I kinda still have one foot in the closet. I don't really proactively tell people I'm bi, but at least I don't lie about it anymore. My rationale these days is that, if I don't plan to fuck you, it's none of your business.

Deorum said:
<17>

^ That... thing, is truly detestable.

<36>

About half of you are legitimately bisexual and I absolutely acknowledge and respect that. It's just that the "one drop rule" is a thing as far as the majority is concerned so yeah, may as well be. Of course, I'd encourage you to drop the women entirely but if that isn't something you want to happen then be careful with the twinks. Before you know it they'll become exclusive and you'll become a full blown "ex-bi" homosexual yourself, many such cases!

On the contrary...

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<BC1>
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Ha, I don't really plan on breeding at this point (for various reasons), so I don't really care if I end up with a girl or a guy. I'm actually kind of in my first same sex relationship right now (even though I almost fucked it up), and I've finally realized that it's fine either way it works out.
 
Daverisimo said:
A little of both, but more of the former for me if I'm being honest. I knew on some level that I'd had crushes on other boys, but I was DEEPLY in denial about it, so if I could prove that I liked girls, that would prove I wasn't gay (the concept that I could be bi was completely lost on me at that point. It wasn't until I was 19 that I repeated the "experiment" with a guy). I also went into adolescence in the 00's, (and in Kentucky no less), so being gay was the worst possible thing a guy could be as far as I knew, and being bisexual was no different.
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Kentucky? Huh, I'm actually kind of familiar with the implications of that. My boyfriend is originally from that state, and was kicked out of the house as a teenager by his parents six years ago. He hasn't seen or even spoken to them since. My family situation is kind of fucked up too but disproportionately on one side and nothing like what he experienced, but I was already long gone and financially independent when those beans were spilled.

Daverisimo said:
Ha, I don't really plan on breeding at this point (for various reasons), so I don't really care if I end up with a girl or a guy. I'm actually kind of in my first same sex relationship right now (even though I almost fucked it up), and I've finally realized that it's fine either way it works out.
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Heh, so am I although that's rather misleading and is in no way equivalent to the number of flings, partners and psuedo relationships. I'm basically taking it serious enough that it's the first time I've ever closed down all my dating app profiles to be committed to someone.
 
Deorum said:
Heh, so am I although that's rather misleading and is in no way equivalent to the number of flings, partners and psuedo relationships. I'm basically taking it serious enough that it's the first time I've ever closed down all my dating app profiles to be committed to someone.
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Aaaaw. Our very own little NoDak is growing and considering a monogamous relationship. Sniff.

Lol


Keep at least one of those apps open for a while longer. You know, just to stay current and keep track of whatever is going on in your sphere.
 
Deorum said:
Kentucky? Huh, I'm actually kind of familiar with the implications of that. My boyfriend is originally from that state, and was kicked out of the house as a teenager by his parents six years ago. He hasn't seen or even spoken to them since. My family situation is kind of fucked up too but disproportionately on one side and nothing like what he experienced, but I was already long gone and financially independent when those beans were spilled.
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To be fair, I'm not a born and bred kentuckian (I'm an army brat), so my situation was probably not quite as bad as your boyfriend's. Still, I had a fairly conservative family and was surrounded by homophobic shithead classmates, so it wasn't great.

Heh, so am I although that's rather misleading and is in no way equivalent to the number of flings, partners and psuedo relationships. I'm basically taking it serious enough that it's the first time I've ever closed down all my dating app profiles to be committed to someone.
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I've had quite a few flings, but my current bf is only the second guy I've slept with more than once, and THE only guy who has been more than just a fuck, so it's kind of new territory for me.

mmafan2000 said:
The alphabet people are never happy, satisfied or will stop.
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Every time the straights complain, we add another letter ;)
 
Bald1 said:
Aaaaw. Our very own little NoDak is growing and considering a monogamous relationship. Sniff.

Lol

Keep at least one of those apps open for a while longer. You know, just to stay current and keep track of whatever is going on in your sphere.
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I blame @Rebelfett, @Gutter Chris and @Jesus H. Sherdog for that specifically. You all better be at my fucking wedding. Man, I feel like total sellout already and may have to drop his ass now on pure principle. But nah, I'm really enjoying the consistent company and it isn't a permanent live-in situation yet. As far as keeping an app open, I think you can see how that may be a problem. Plus, he's barely turning 24 this month and still has nightlife energy (not as much as I do though tbh), so there's not much chance I'll fall out of step. We just can't see or touch other weenies.

Daverisimo said:
To be fair, I'm not a born and bred kentuckian (I'm an army brat), so my situation was probably not quite as bad as your boyfriend's. Still, I had a fairly conservative family and was surrounded by homophobic shithead classmates, so it wasn't great.

I've had quite a few flings, but my current bf is only the second guy I've slept with more than once, and THE only guy who has been more than just a fuck, so it's kind of new territory for me.

Every time the straights complain, we add another letter ;)
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Homophobia is actually a mental illness.

A Lurker said:
Fuck the nuclear family, its the root of all the evil we see in the world.
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Yehudim said:
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