I know, which is why I mentioned only Conor and his family/friends know his lifestyle habits. Just because he may live a lifestyle involved with recreational drugs does not mean he has problems with abuse or that it may lead to one. Most people I know involved with recreational drugs and alcohol manage fully functional & happy lives. It's not ideal, but things are not that simple. Exactly, if Conor or his family suspect he has a problem, he seeks treatment. My point is you don't have to seek professional help to realize you have a problem but it certainly helps and is typically a must for people seeking sobriety.