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Looks on girls overrated

Some people will disagree but being a super hot female is not as great a life as people think. Society trains them early that their value is how great they look. They see beautiful women being sexualized everywhere they turn. Men stare at them, and they get propositioned to be "models" or strippers. From an early age they see every man is trying to get in their pants. Every relationship with a male has sexual interest from him.

After a while it becomes normalized and they see themselves as sex objects.

This is why they become so wrapped up in their looks. Also why they struggle with aging and losing their looks.

I respectfully disagree on some of those points. I agree that being a 10/10 female can be difficult in a few regards and can lead to the stereotypical attitude. However, it can also literally provide the easiest path through life and opens virtually any door you can imagine, especially if you're white. If you choose to be a gold digger, you simply attach yourself to a successful older man and you're set. If you choose any career path, every red blooded male in corporate America wants to hire you. You may never be a C suite executive (ie the old boys club), but the red carpet will be laid out for you the entire way. Average to below average females have a much harder path through life.
 
Most cans in mayberry have terrible standards so I don't really believe she is a ten. Post pics of her so I can accurately rate her.

In Asia, being No.1 is the most important. Anything else is a failure and reason to be stoned / executed / burnt alive at the stake.

No.1 ...not No.10
They rate their girls on a reverse scale is what I'm saying. 1 being the best.
 
I place a lot more emphasis on many things other than looks nowadays. I mean you have to have some physical attraction and stuff but getting along with a person makes them physically hotter in your eyes anyway.

A fun compatible "6" bumps up to an 8 or 9 on your physically attractive scale. A super bitchy annoying 10 suddenly looks like a 7 in your mind.
 
I recently dated 2 girls at once.

One was this beautiful, sexy girl. 10/10. We would walk down the street and guys jaw would drop. If we walk by a bar, literally the whole wave of people would turn their heads. Sexy fitness girl, fantastic dancer. Funny girl. Great sex.

However, at night she sometimes smelled a bit bad, and farted our loud while having the bathroom door open (wtf?).

She was fun to hang out with but so self centered it got tiring. She also got a huge need for confirmation from people.

I ditched her for a girl that is maybe a 7, but is way cooler, just as funny, but she is really clean. Great sex as well.

After every time we have sex she goes to wash. If we have sex 3 times she shower 3 times.

Always smells good. Isn't as self centered and much more considerate.

In the end, I got bored with a 10 and settled with a 7 who is just cooler.

Cliffs:
- Banged a 10
- Also banged a 7 at the same time
- Got tired of 10
- Chose the 7 instead of 10
- Is thinking that maybe looks is important but not a deciding factor like thought before


Thoughts?

DUDE.. my last girl was a 9/10 face with 10/10 boobs.. overall 7.5 because ass and legs were below even average, but very pretty.. But that constant UTI smell doe. It's terrible. I had a fat girl before who somehow always smelled perfect, and I needed to eat her *** all the time.

Smell is important.

Now, I have. 5-6/10, with an 8/10 face but who is overweight, and I like screwing her the most.. Because she's the coolest, and sometimes chemistry in sex doesn't come just from stereotypical "Good looks."

She isn't even that smart, but she's down and fun. We aren't a couple yet, but I spent the night there and I'm pretty sure she is trying to get me to knock her up. She's a Syrian Muslim, btw, and yes, I have to go to Dearborn to see her.. We bang with no curtains on the third floor with Muslims walking by the entire time, makes me think somebody is going to Sharia her ass when I leave. But even though she has a pretty face, some people would feel shy walking with her because she's about 5'3 190. But I just love nailing her. Had another heavy girl I loved nailing before as well. Just had a skinny girl I could barely get hard with the other week.

Anyways, those fake azz "I'm a skank, look at me!" Looks are for internet talk more than anything. Doesn't mean they are the best for sex or even most attractive to you when it counts.

Good job on the 10/10. Not sure I've had one.. probably a few 9/10s.
 
Exactly. I figured, what will she do when the wrinkles start coming and she will start sagging?

Her whole personality is based on fitness and looking good. What's left in 15 years?

Well if fitness plays a key role in this than she will have a cushion to fall back on. If she stays fit, than she will always look good to many generations of men.

If a she was a 10/10 without understanding the concept of fitness than things will go south in a way that a few guys mentioned on page 1 of this thread.
 
I recently dated 2 girls at once.

One was this beautiful, sexy girl. 10/10. We would walk down the street and guys jaw would drop. If we walk by a bar, literally the whole wave of people would turn their heads. Sexy fitness girl, fantastic dancer. Funny girl. Great sex.

However, at night she sometimes smelled a bit bad, and farted our loud while having the bathroom door open (wtf?).

She was fun to hang out with but so self centered it got tiring. She also got a huge need for confirmation from people.

I ditched her for a girl that is maybe a 7, but is way cooler, just as funny, but she is really clean. Great sex as well.

After every time we have sex she goes to wash. If we have sex 3 times she shower 3 times.

Always smells good. Isn't as self centered and much more considerate.

In the end, I got bored with a 10 and settled with a 7 who is just cooler.

Cliffs:
- Banged a 10
- Also banged a 7 at the same time
- Got tired of 10
- Chose the 7 instead of 10
- Is thinking that maybe looks is important but not a deciding factor like thought before


Thoughts?

I'd much rather have the 7 who tries harder in bed. Who cares if a girl is 10/10 if she doesn't go down on you? Nah f that. Give me good sex over that any day.
 
Yep, looks are over-rated and it's always best to err on the side of caution and immediately reject any 10/10 that approaches you looking to bang. Better safe than sorry!
 
I respectfully disagree on some of those points. I agree that being a 10/10 female can be difficult in a few regards and can lead to the stereotypical attitude. However, it can also literally provide the easiest path through life and opens virtually any door you can imagine, especially if you're white. If you choose to be a gold digger, you simply attach yourself to a successful older man and you're set. If you choose any career path, every red blooded male in corporate America wants to hire you. You may never be a C suite executive (ie the old boys club), but the red carpet will be laid out for you the entire way. Average to below average females have a much harder path through life.


Well on the surface the "gold digger" lifestyle may appear to be an easy path..... it's often a miserable situation for the woman. These men often are abusive and treat the woman as the sex object that society has taught her that she is. I would also ask you what's easy about a loveless marriage, having sex with a person you possibly find repulsive, and living a life devoid of any real meaning? Yes many 10's choose this life but I'm saying it's predetermined because of where they've been taught their value as a human lies

Additionally, your comment about getting any job serves to prove my point. Every man in their lives wants sex or at a minimum will see them sexually and further supports the idea that their value is how they look.
 
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10/10 girls with big egos are super common, understandable even. But having horrible hygiene is disgusting regardless of how people look.

Yeah he said the girl was into fitness too. Sounds like she doesn't shower after every work out, that must be disgusting.

If you are going to drench your body in sweat multiple times a day please clean yourself after.
 
Every man in their lives wants sex or at a minimum will see them sexually and further supports the idea that their value is how they look.

Beats not being valued at all and if strangers giving them special treatment is such a problem they can certainly adopt pursuits outside of beauty while doing things to diminish their physical attractiveness.
 
Beats not being valued at all and if strangers giving them special treatment is such a problem they can certainly adopt pursuits outside of beauty while doing things to diminish their physical attractiveness.

thats almost impossible for them. Every thing in our/their daily lives tells them that beauty is what every woman strives for. Doing things to intentionally diminish their beauty is completely backwards to what they've taught. It's engrained in our whole western culture.

Society created a life where -
Men want women
Woman want to be wanted by men

Proof of this is in every commercial on tv, magazine, billboard, and the way men and women talk about the other sex as well as themselves
 
basically TS has dated two women in his lifetime
 
Well on the surface the "gold digger" lifestyle may appear to be an easy path..... it's often a miserable situation for the woman. These men often are abusive and treat the woman as the sex object that society has taught her that she is. I would also ask you what's easy about a loveless marriage, having sex with a person you possibly find repulsive, and living a life devoid of any real meaning? Yes many 10's choose this life but I'm saying it's predetermined because of where they've been taught their value as a human lies

Additionally, your comment about getting any job serves to prove my point. Every man in their lives wants sex or at a minimum will see them sexually and further supports the idea that their value is how they look.

We are arguing the same point. They are blessed, not cursed, to have the most desirable trait that society values for women (right or wrong). They can choose to let it go to their head or remain grounded, but either way, their life is easier and filled with options unavailable to everyone else.
 
thats almost impossible for them. Every thing in our/their daily lives tells them that beauty is what every woman strives for. Doing things to intentionally diminish their beauty is completely backwards to what they've taught. It's engrained in our whole western culture.

Society created a life where -
Men want women
Woman want to be wanted by men

Proof of this is in every commercial on tv, magazine, billboard, and the way men and women talk about the other sex as well as themselves

Then I guess that kind of value must be pretty valuable.
 
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