Let’s be honest though — dating apps >> real life

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Coming from a guy who hates dating apps .



If the goal is to have a robust “dating” life.. be seeing a different woman every week. I’ve done that on the apps. Not in real life.. and I’m not sure I know anyone who’s had that type of success with cold approach or bar pickups or whatever.
 
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WHOM are you trying to deceive, TS?

"seeing a different woman every week..."

Just admit you're a user of grindr.


every single person I know has met their girlfriend through hinge or tinder.

As much as I hate dating apps.. it’s not a fair fight. Cold approach vs Hinge is like a LW fighting Ngannou
 
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every single person I know has met their girlfriend through hinge or tinder.

As much as I hate dating apps.. it’s not a fair fight. Cold approach vs Hinge is like a LW fighting Ngannou
Well it's not quite apples to apples b/c on dating apps, everyone is looking. It's like saying it's easier to meet new friends as a freshman in college vs walking around downtown. If someone is on the app they are already looking for a date. If someone is at a bar or club they aren't necessarily looking for a date.

Now if you fill 1 physical locatiion with all people who interesting in dating then the odds are probably the same or better than a dating app.
 
Well it's not quite apples to apples b/c on dating apps, everyone is looking. It's like saying it's easier to meet new friends as a freshman in college vs walking around downtown. If someone is on the app they are already looking for a date. If someone is at a bar or club they aren't necessarily looking for a date.

Now if you fill 1 physical locatiion with all people who interesting in dating then the odds are probably the same or better than a dating app.
That’s the whole point of dating apps and why they work so well.
 
Picking up a girl at a bar is way more enjoyable than an app.

Young people are too afraid. To see the facial expressions when I explain to young men that everyone over 40 used to have to call a landline and then ask the girls father or mother if they are home and can talk on the phone...
 
every single person I know has met their girlfriend through hinge or tinder.

As much as I hate dating apps.. it’s not a fair fight. Cold approach vs Hinge is like a LW fighting Ngannou
If you're young and socially awkward, then yes, dating apps are the way to go.

If you have a bit of game...

I have once hooked up with a woman whom I met on the subway. the train was delayed, I was in a hurry. I asked her how late the train would be, then I said I'd take a cab.

Offered her a ride. Just a bit of chitchat, and that was it.

It was before tinder though.
 
Well it's not quite apples to apples b/c on dating apps, everyone is looking. It's like saying it's easier to meet new friends as a freshman in college vs walking around downtown. If someone is on the app they are already looking for a date. If someone is at a bar or club they aren't necessarily looking for a date.

Now if you fill 1 physical locatiion with all people who interesting in dating then the odds are probably the same or better than a dating app.
Ninja here making fecking sense on Sherdog.
 
Pro Tip: Go to a bar on Valentines Day. It's full of single women looking to be anything but single.
I never tried dating apps but I can't believe it's easier than working at a bar. I prefer in person anyway.
 
I don't know what you are doing because I found the dating apps to be complete garbage. If you are a top 1% Chad then your experience is probably different. But it was mostly prostitutes and sugar babies in my epxperience. And don't dare be clever because you will get downvoted to oblivion.
 
Honestly the best way to meet women is at work. Not saying there aren't downsides to fucking and dating your coworkers, but you know what you're getting into with someone you spend 40 hours a week around. Plus no guessing if they're gainfully employed.

The gym would be the next best place for me. Common interest... Don't have the deceptive pics in dating apps.. you can see she's in shape. Plus it's easy to know someone over time when their gym schedule dovetails with yours.
 
Picking up a girl at a bar is way more enjoyable than an app.
Last bar babe was a honey of a magician, she offered me 2 tricks for a C-note.

As a life long humanitarian, it was my pleasure to provide some financial help to a hot AF struggling professional single mom, relative or not, always wanted to be there to help.

To this day, the blessings of winning enuff at poker the night before changed my setts life.
I don't know what you're doing because I found the dating apps to be complete garbage. If you are a top 1% Chad then your experience is probably different. But it was mostly prostitutes and sugar babies in my epxperience. And don't dare be clever because you will get downvoted to oblivion.
Telling Sherdoggers "don't dare be clever" - ya might as well tell the blind not to water ski.
 
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I don't know what you are doing because I found the dating apps to be complete garbage. If you are a top 1% Chad then your experience is probably different. But it was mostly prostitutes and sugar babies in my epxperience. And don't dare be clever because you will get downvoted to oblivion.
I used to be handsome in a boyish type of way.. women love that look for some weird reason. They love the tallest, most muscular dude until a 130 pound Kpop looking dude walk in wearing a scarf.

I knew an unemployed 5’ 8 meth head who was fucking all types of fine women.

that motherfuckers life was falling apart and he was pulling the baddest bitches..

Not a friend. Guy I bought drugs from
 
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