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Just spend $230 for a date - WASTE OF TIME!

I know a girl (let's call her Clara) who I met in my Operations Management class back in college a few years back. Not going to post a picture, but she is stunning. Long black hair with light brown eyes, slim figure and about 5'4, light skin w/ freckles. Back then, we were paired up in 4 people teams for our class final group project (where we had to design a workflow for a specific product/service).
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The only thing she did wrong is (correctly) detect that you're a creepy loser.

I feel gross now. IT'S WOMEN'S DAY.
 
Do you guys believe the OP? It was far too cringey to be real.
 
I am recently single and have been going on dates with a few girls . Always talk about dating horror stories and girls always bring up when a guy tries to give them a gift at end of night On first dates .. they hate it .....

Also I know the stories probably fake and a joke and written as a joke to make you look lame , but 150 is was to much for first date ....
 
not even 1 sentence of that wall of shit, but LMFAO at spending that much on a date with a hoe

youre an idiot dude.
 
After reading all of that (I did) I can see why she didn't fuck you. You reek of desperation.

And fuck this whole not having pics of this Boise 5.
Don't you remember the last time he posted pics?
 
Let me start from the top, but please bare with me because I am fuming right now so I might not write perfectly. THIS IS NOT TL:DR FRIENDLY

I know a girl (let's call her Clara) who I met in my Operations Management class back in college a few years back. Not going to post a picture, but she is stunning. Long black hair with light brown eyes, slim figure and about 5'4, light skin w/ freckles. Back then, we were paired up in 4 people teams for our class final group project (where we had to design a workflow for a specific product/service).

I was in charge of the powerpoint, she was in charge of admin work, and the other two people were data focused. I remember there was a study night where we all were together practicing in the library and the other two left, with just her and I left. She said "I know we will do great", which struck me as odd because she didn't say "Our team" she said "we" while looking at me. I would always do silly things to talk to her like forget my pen(she would always laugh cause i would always forget my pen, but she didn't realize I was doing it on purpose)

Anyways, fast forward to present time. About 2 weeks ago I ran into her at Kroger (grocery store) , she was waiting on the self checkout line (it was quite full cause it was a sunday) She was still beautiful as ever, with even more curves. I asked her how she has been after graduating and she said she did an internship and was in the process of looking for a new position. She does accounting like me and I told her I have been doing well and work as a full time. A position opened up at my job that is a junior role. I told her that I have been working out a lot more and that I go to the gym almost every other day. I also told her I recently been collecting Medieval weapons/armors and she told me she went to Medieval times (which I joked and told her that's for kids) , so we had this natural click and I could feel the attraction. She asked if we could talk more over coffee and gave me her number (she had just finished packing her bags and I was talking to her)

Now let's get something straight. When women want to talk about business, they don't give you their number, they give you their e-mail address and/or linkedin. ALSO, when she said it she said it in a higher pitch than usual and it's been documented that women will speak in a higher pitch when speaking to a guy they like (I am prefacing this because people give me shit about it).

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Part 2: So I told my friend I got her number and he gave me the "oh shit" emoji. Told me that it makes no sense to take a girl out to cffee since that's cheap, so he told me to take her out to a pretty famous mexican restaurant (she is spanish). So I messaged her and told her to do food instead and she responded "Okay, that sound's great." and we arranged to meet for a lunch.

So when we met I made reservations and she looked drop dead gorgeous as usual, she cracked a joke that she felt underdressed (I was wearing a suit) and I told her it was part of my company policy (it really isnt i just look great in one). We got the table and I immediately ordered the lobster appetizer (which honestly wasnt that good, it was super small and cost like $28) We talked about a lot of things, Trump, the job, medieval weapons (I showed her photos of my maces). She even mentioned she had a brother named Jose so I told her "is it pronounced Joe Say or Hoe Say" and told her how people always mispronounced Jose Aldo's name. She didnt know Aldo so I then showed her Jose Aldo's finish of Jeremy Stephens and then his loss to Conor McGregor, she said she knew who McGregor was which I thought was super hot (shes gorgeous and watches MMA!!, PLUS)

Throughout the whole meal the bill totalleed up to like $150, I went to reach for her hand to touch on top of it while smiling at her and she kind of pulled her hand back which was insulting to me. So when we were leaving she said she had to take a call from her brother (I joked and said "Joe Say?") and I waited for her to walk her back (I think it's rude not to walk women back to their cars, plus I had a surprise)

So I walk her back and told her to wait because I had to get something from my car, I had bought her Richard Donnelly Chocolates which are an extremely expensive brand (Cost me $70) and told her I noticed she bought some chocolate at Kroger so I knew she was a sweet tooth, she said thank you and gave me a hug (she smelled so good).

Anyway, I reached in for a kiss and she did the whole head turning thing and I figured I might have been too forward (I have alot of confidence and can sometimes think light of things like that) so I told her I'd call her later. She never fucking picked up. I texted her and it took THREE fucking days to get a response. and she basically told me she was happy to see me but that she had a boyfriend - yeah fucking bullshit, if you had a boyfriend you would never have shown up, or you would have told me when we kissed (well almost kissed) .

I told her I thought it was bullshit that she led me on and told her that the chocolates i fucking spent were very rare brand and all I get is a fucking hug and no call? What kind of bulllshit is that? I swear it's shit like that makes me think dating is a fucking waste of time, why bother spending so much when you can easily pay equal amts for way more attractive women or just watch porn.

Its insane, anyways

TLDR: I went on a date with a girl, spent a lot of gifts and shit only for her to tell me AFTER that she had a man.

I would suggest two things brother:

1. Don't try to impress girls by spending a bunch of money on them on dates. I never really do that. less is more. I would pay for them to eat an average meal or some booze. If she likes you she'll come out for a drink or two or just come back to your crib. Impress her with your body or your personality or your music not with your money. I would never spend more than $80.00 on a stranger.

2. work out and get into great shape with a hot body. I'm a hypocrite cuz i've been falling out of shape lately but just do it. Guy with hot body is more attractive than a guy going into debt buying them shit.

Much love.
 
Here’s where you fucked up:
-You notice things about her and related them back to yourself and talked about yourself.
-You talked to her about your workout routines.
-You talked to her about mid evil weapons (for real?)
-You bought her expensive chocolates on a first date.
-You went in for a kiss, apparently not realizing the above was a total crash and burn. That’s not how you save a bad date.
I think (among other mistakes not listed) we can safely add wearing a suit to a mexican restaurant for a first date to this list.
 
She actually made it through an entire dinner being seen with your in public. There's entire make-a-wish foundations that wouldn't go that far to please someone.

Consider yourself lucky
 
can we talk about the lenght of some people's sigs over here, jesus, "hey im not gonna read that but here is my fucking 5 paragraph forum signature, fuck you"

kind of a double standard if you ask me, if you are gonna write the fucking bible on your signature you read these fucking text walls every time
 
Let me start from the top, but please bare with me because I am fuming right now so I might not write perfectly. THIS IS NOT TL:DR FRIENDLY

I know a girl (let's call her Clara) who I met in my Operations Management class back in college a few years back. Not going to post a picture, but she is stunning. Long black hair with light brown eyes, slim figure and about 5'4, light skin w/ freckles. Back then, we were paired up in 4 people teams for our class final group project (where we had to design a workflow for a specific product/service).

I was in charge of the powerpoint, she was in charge of admin work, and the other two people were data focused. I remember there was a study night where we all were together practicing in the library and the other two left, with just her and I left. She said "I know we will do great", which struck me as odd because she didn't say "Our team" she said "we" while looking at me. I would always do silly things to talk to her like forget my pen(she would always laugh cause i would always forget my pen, but she didn't realize I was doing it on purpose)

Anyways, fast forward to present time. About 2 weeks ago I ran into her at Kroger (grocery store) , she was waiting on the self checkout line (it was quite full cause it was a sunday) She was still beautiful as ever, with even more curves. I asked her how she has been after graduating and she said she did an internship and was in the process of looking for a new position. She does accounting like me and I told her I have been doing well and work as a full time. A position opened up at my job that is a junior role. I told her that I have been working out a lot more and that I go to the gym almost every other day. I also told her I recently been collecting Medieval weapons/armors and she told me she went to Medieval times (which I joked and told her that's for kids) , so we had this natural click and I could feel the attraction. She asked if we could talk more over coffee and gave me her number (she had just finished packing her bags and I was talking to her)

Now let's get something straight. When women want to talk about business, they don't give you their number, they give you their e-mail address and/or linkedin. ALSO, when she said it she said it in a higher pitch than usual and it's been documented that women will speak in a higher pitch when speaking to a guy they like (I am prefacing this because people give me shit about it).

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Part 2: So I told my friend I got her number and he gave me the "oh shit" emoji. Told me that it makes no sense to take a girl out to cffee since that's cheap, so he told me to take her out to a pretty famous mexican restaurant (she is spanish). So I messaged her and told her to do food instead and she responded "Okay, that sound's great." and we arranged to meet for a lunch.

So when we met I made reservations and she looked drop dead gorgeous as usual, she cracked a joke that she felt underdressed (I was wearing a suit) and I told her it was part of my company policy (it really isnt i just look great in one). We got the table and I immediately ordered the lobster appetizer (which honestly wasnt that good, it was super small and cost like $28) We talked about a lot of things, Trump, the job, medieval weapons (I showed her photos of my maces). She even mentioned she had a brother named Jose so I told her "is it pronounced Joe Say or Hoe Say" and told her how people always mispronounced Jose Aldo's name. She didnt know Aldo so I then showed her Jose Aldo's finish of Jeremy Stephens and then his loss to Conor McGregor, she said she knew who McGregor was which I thought was super hot (shes gorgeous and watches MMA!!, PLUS)

Throughout the whole meal the bill totalleed up to like $150, I went to reach for her hand to touch on top of it while smiling at her and she kind of pulled her hand back which was insulting to me. So when we were leaving she said she had to take a call from her brother (I joked and said "Joe Say?") and I waited for her to walk her back (I think it's rude not to walk women back to their cars, plus I had a surprise)

So I walk her back and told her to wait because I had to get something from my car, I had bought her Richard Donnelly Chocolates which are an extremely expensive brand (Cost me $70) and told her I noticed she bought some chocolate at Kroger so I knew she was a sweet tooth, she said thank you and gave me a hug (she smelled so good).

Anyway, I reached in for a kiss and she did the whole head turning thing and I figured I might have been too forward (I have alot of confidence and can sometimes think light of things like that) so I told her I'd call her later. She never fucking picked up. I texted her and it took THREE fucking days to get a response. and she basically told me she was happy to see me but that she had a boyfriend - yeah fucking bullshit, if you had a boyfriend you would never have shown up, or you would have told me when we kissed (well almost kissed) .

I told her I thought it was bullshit that she led me on and told her that the chocolates i fucking spent were very rare brand and all I get is a fucking hug and no call? What kind of bulllshit is that? I swear it's shit like that makes me think dating is a fucking waste of time, why bother spending so much when you can easily pay equal amts for way more attractive women or just watch porn.

Its insane, anyways

TLDR: I went on a date with a girl, spent a lot of gifts and shit only for her to tell me AFTER that she had a man.
HIGHLIGHTS
  1. Told her he is into medieval cosplay
  2. Spent money on her without figuring out if she is single
  3. Thinks that anytime a woman gives him a phone # it means she wants to get laid
  4. Surprised she isn't interested at all
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Let me start from the top, but please bare with me because I am fuming right now so I might not write perfectly. THIS IS NOT TL:DR FRIENDLY

I know a girl (let's call her Clara) who I met in my Operations Management class back in college a few years back. Not going to post a picture, but she is stunning. Long black hair with light brown eyes, slim figure and about 5'4, light skin w/ freckles. Back then, we were paired up in 4 people teams for our class final group project (where we had to design a workflow for a specific product/service).

I was in charge of the powerpoint, she was in charge of admin work, and the other two people were data focused. I remember there was a study night where we all were together practicing in the library and the other two left, with just her and I left. She said "I know we will do great", which struck me as odd because she didn't say "Our team" she said "we" while looking at me. I would always do silly things to talk to her like forget my pen(she would always laugh cause i would always forget my pen, but she didn't realize I was doing it on purpose)

Anyways, fast forward to present time. About 2 weeks ago I ran into her at Kroger (grocery store) , she was waiting on the self checkout line (it was quite full cause it was a sunday) She was still beautiful as ever, with even more curves. I asked her how she has been after graduating and she said she did an internship and was in the process of looking for a new position. She does accounting like me and I told her I have been doing well and work as a full time. A position opened up at my job that is a junior role. I told her that I have been working out a lot more and that I go to the gym almost every other day. I also told her I recently been collecting Medieval weapons/armors and she told me she went to Medieval times (which I joked and told her that's for kids) , so we had this natural click and I could feel the attraction. She asked if we could talk more over coffee and gave me her number (she had just finished packing her bags and I was talking to her)

Now let's get something straight. When women want to talk about business, they don't give you their number, they give you their e-mail address and/or linkedin. ALSO, when she said it she said it in a higher pitch than usual and it's been documented that women will speak in a higher pitch when speaking to a guy they like (I am prefacing this because people give me shit about it).

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Part 2: So I told my friend I got her number and he gave me the "oh shit" emoji. Told me that it makes no sense to take a girl out to cffee since that's cheap, so he told me to take her out to a pretty famous mexican restaurant (she is spanish). So I messaged her and told her to do food instead and she responded "Okay, that sound's great." and we arranged to meet for a lunch.

So when we met I made reservations and she looked drop dead gorgeous as usual, she cracked a joke that she felt underdressed (I was wearing a suit) and I told her it was part of my company policy (it really isnt i just look great in one). We got the table and I immediately ordered the lobster appetizer (which honestly wasnt that good, it was super small and cost like $28) We talked about a lot of things, Trump, the job, medieval weapons (I showed her photos of my maces). She even mentioned she had a brother named Jose so I told her "is it pronounced Joe Say or Hoe Say" and told her how people always mispronounced Jose Aldo's name. She didnt know Aldo so I then showed her Jose Aldo's finish of Jeremy Stephens and then his loss to Conor McGregor, she said she knew who McGregor was which I thought was super hot (shes gorgeous and watches MMA!!, PLUS)

Throughout the whole meal the bill totalleed up to like $150, I went to reach for her hand to touch on top of it while smiling at her and she kind of pulled her hand back which was insulting to me. So when we were leaving she said she had to take a call from her brother (I joked and said "Joe Say?") and I waited for her to walk her back (I think it's rude not to walk women back to their cars, plus I had a surprise)

So I walk her back and told her to wait because I had to get something from my car, I had bought her Richard Donnelly Chocolates which are an extremely expensive brand (Cost me $70) and told her I noticed she bought some chocolate at Kroger so I knew she was a sweet tooth, she said thank you and gave me a hug (she smelled so good).

Anyway, I reached in for a kiss and she did the whole head turning thing and I figured I might have been too forward (I have alot of confidence and can sometimes think light of things like that) so I told her I'd call her later. She never fucking picked up. I texted her and it took THREE fucking days to get a response. and she basically told me she was happy to see me but that she had a boyfriend - yeah fucking bullshit, if you had a boyfriend you would never have shown up, or you would have told me when we kissed (well almost kissed) .

I told her I thought it was bullshit that she led me on and told her that the chocolates i fucking spent were very rare brand and all I get is a fucking hug and no call? What kind of bulllshit is that? I swear it's shit like that makes me think dating is a fucking waste of time, why bother spending so much when you can easily pay equal amts for way more attractive women or just watch porn.

Its insane, anyways

TLDR: I went on a date with a girl, spent a lot of gifts and shit only for her to tell me AFTER that she had a man.
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Only skimmed through, but it is entirely your fault. She clearly has no respect for you after you spent all of that money on her and then expected her to reciprocate. Don't try to overcompensate by buying a girl you barely even know "rare, expensive" chocolates. Those things are not what makes her want to sleep with you. Try coffee next time, and then bounce to a bar/restaurant later if you like where things are going, but never spend so much fucking money on a girl unnecessarily. It's the equivalent of being a chick who always puts out on the first date.
 
Lol I hope this isn't real.
You are 100% wrong TS.
Just because she gave you her number doesn't mean she wanted to fuck you. You knew her in college and she was looking for a job. It would be pretty natural to get some coffee and catch up. Her having a boyfriend doesn't mean she can't meet other males for a chat, this isn't Afghanistan.

LOL She said coffee...and you instead Make reservations at some expensive ass restaurant and wear a SUIT on a first "date"? And buy her expensive ass chocolate? Ultra douche move.
If she pulled her hand away from you, what made you think a kiss would be goood? And lol at talking to a girl about medieval weapons and MMA.
Just go gay, man. There is no hope for you.
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