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Just spend $230 for a date - WASTE OF TIME!

In short, your upset that you spent alot on date who ultimately wasn't interested in you.

We have all been there my friend. Just chalk it up as a learning experience and the opportunity to have a nice meal.

Your absolutely right though, that girl either doesn't have a boyfriend, or she is pre-planning an exit by looking for other guys.

If it makes you feel any better, I spent $600 on dinner and drinks with a girl I KNEW I wasn't going to have a shot with.
 
I got a girls number once and I said Hookup? And it worked. It was free. You should try that. But in a suit.
 
So you assumed it was a date, spent lots of money and assumed it would lead to more because you spent lots of money... Maybe next time just do coffee? Or better still do something either fun or doesn't cost anything? Being inventive will get more bonus points than waving money around any day.
 
There are so many wrong things to unpack there, that I really hope that you're kidding.
 
OP, you deserved to waste your money, hopefully it's a learning experience. Never spend that kind of money on someone who isn't your gf who reciprocates, or your wife. It reeks of desperation.

If she gave you the cheek, she's basically telling you that you're never getting in her pants.

Judging by your actions, you're missing some serious social skills. The fact you posted that as though anyone would side with you tells me you're deluded. Get some professional help (a counselor), it's money better spent for you. You'll be less frustrated, and not just with women. I mean that with total sincerity.
 
I had someone try "buy" me once after a couple dates because I was unable to make my mind up between him and another guy... He offered to take me overseas with him... Needless to say I went with the guy who didn't try to buy me. Chicks don't like to be bought or made to feel obligated to be with someone.
 
90 50 said:
Especially if they are but are on the way “out” looking at perspective options.

Play it cool, have a nice “catching up with old college acquaintance “ for coffee.

Couple days pass, he pisses her off again and you are deep in it minutes after she calls you.
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It's a troll thread but looks like you speak at least a little womanese.

Disbelief suspended:
That's exactly what this was the chick was just taking in an application. She had him pegged as not a very high value male but if he'd just refrained from being an unhinged weirdo he'd be getting the call in weeks or months to drop some dick off.
 
There is a saying in spanish, “el que folla pagando acaba ahorrando“. Look that up, apply to your live. That or dont expect to win women over by paying, if they really like you you dont need to pay for shit. If you are paying it all, you are being used
 
you went specifically for mexican food because she's spanish?
 
Ts got off lucky tbh. Jose would’ve kicked the shit out of him.
 
I'll pretend that never happened because if it was real it would be as awful as getting jump spinning back kicked in the face.
 
Should’ve told her you’re in charge of hiring and used that as a way to give her the D.
Seems like she was looking for you to do her a favor but wasn’t willing to go the extra mile.
 
TeTe said:
After reading all of that (I did) I can see why she didn't fuck you. You reek of desperation.

And fuck this whole not having pics of this Boise 5.
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Just hit the OP with teh Ban Stormbreaker and put him out of everyone's misery:)
 
chickenlip said:
Should’ve told her you’re in charge of hiring and used that as a way to give her the D.
Seems like she was looking for you to do her a favor but wasn’t willing to go the extra mile.
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Now that I think about it. It's kind of weird that TS threw out the job opportunity there and then tried to bang her also. Why would you try to work with someone your just starting a relationship with that just sounds like a bad idea.
 
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