is it "wrong" to sleep with a married person?

[lesnarsneedle]

You know a guy, eh? Coolstorybro.

Anyways, I'm not going to convince you, as I said. I give no fucks about your existence, I just thought you might so I gave you some perspective. Hope you're a troll otherwise it's going to be a lonely life. =[

100% true story.

Interesting life. Fast bikes. Faster cars. New girl every week. No legally binding contracts for half my shit.

 

[GearSolidMetal]

No, it's the truth.

Nothing less.

No, you've convinced yourself its the truth.

Everything I've posted, I've meant, so please understand I mean what I'm about to type.

From your posts I've read of yours, I've gathered you've been through alot of pain, which leads to resentment, which leads to hatred. Whatever you've been through in the past, I hope you to have positive experiences in the future to wipe away your pain and a happier future.

Go in peace.

 

[Mike]

i see what you mean but its kind of more confusing than that because the person doing it kinda forced it on me initially and been trying to convince me for the better part of a year and of course in the beginning i hated his guts and thought it was wrong. but after a while i dont know i would lie if i say i didnt start to feel attracted to him after what happened. its truly messed up and thats why im confused. i hate his guts but now im also attracted to him. very confused and quite possibly crazy.

You mean he literally forced himself on you, or he aggressively pursued you?


It's normal for attraction to grow as you get to know someone over time, so it's not unusual that you're attracted to him now.


Are you looking for a relationship or just a friends with benefits type thing?

I think either would be easier with a single person tbh.

 

[lesnarsneedle]

No, you've convinced yourself its the truth.

Everything I've posted, I've meant, so please understand I mean what I'm about to type.

From your posts I've read of yours, I've gathered you've been through alot of pain, which leads to resentment, which leads to hatred. Whatever you've been through in the past, I hope you to have positive experiences in the future to wipe away your pain and a happier future.

Go in peace.

I've lived 100 lifetimes.

I stay positive, yet skeptical, from experience.

 

[Harmonica]

Sorry but society has no responsibility to make sure another person honours their oath whether it be to their S.O, Spouse, church or a chastity vow they made with friends.

If that vow is to be upheld it is up to the person who made the vow. Not someone else who made no such vow.

And I am comfortable with my moral position and would never want the approval of someone like you on moral state anymore than I would the Taliban. You both can keep your moral code to yourself.

Just goes on to show how shallow your notion of society is.

 

[Tavares1988]

What kind of question is this.even kids know the answer

 

[mushishi]

how women process emotional conflicts is like this

cant just make up the mind and stick with it. you reprocess a problem continually until it just overwhelms you. its like continually running the same piece of paper into a printer until it jams and rips to shreds making the printer useless until you fish out all the pieces of paper jammed into the components.

So...she likes me?

 

[Mike]

So...she likes me?

Maybe for today.

 

[ithinktheymad]

If you make her think that you intend to make an honest women out of her it's a dick move. Otherwise I say it's kind of cold blooded but not "wrong." Don't forget real life cucks either.

 

[koolinkunming]

how women process emotional conflicts is like this

cant just make up the mind and stick with it. you reprocess a problem continually until it just overwhelms you. its like continually running the same piece of paper into a printer until it jams and rips to shreds making the printer useless until you fish out all the pieces of paper jammed into the components.

Lol this is absolutely dead on. I was thinking about this while waiting to find out if I should drive to Safeway or the noodle house or the mall (while already on the road driving to Safeway of course).

I approve of this post hehe.

 

[Alphafail]

Reading through this thread again, I feel sorry for some of the more bitter people here. I really hope you change in the future or you are in for a miserable and wretched existence.

At the the same time, I feel I've been super judgemental towards TS and I feel very ashamed for it.. I got it all wrong from the OP so I would like to apologize here for being such a bitch. It looked at first to me that you've been banging married guys and made this thread to brag about it and seek acceptance, but I realize now how mistaken I was. I'm used to talking about this kind of thing a lot with my RL friends all the time and, to my experience, just venting stuff off tends to help a lot. So if you want to talk about your experience with a bit more detail, feel free to pm me.

 

[MikeMcMann]

That's according to your definitions of morality, community, obligation etc. I won't say you're wrong, but it's certainly subjective.

Sure. A word like morality will always be subjective.

That said the more one tries to impose ones morality on others the more that gets watered down. A fundamentalist muslim might find even our most conservative poster here immoral. And that is because the other person is not living to the fundamentalists code.

I don't impose my view of morality on others when it comes to consensual adult activities. I respect your right to live to your code and I expect the same but the fundamentalist try to just as you guys are trying to. You are literally saying 'if you do not live your life the way I think you should live your life you are immoral.'

And sorry you don't get to make that distinction for others. We cannot decide others morality of consensual adult activities. If two adults who want to be swingers have relationships with other swingers you may say 'i don't agree with their morals' but you don't get to determine what is moral for others anymore than the Taliban could do so for you.

Think about it. Would you accept the Taliban's interpretation of your actions as moral or not or would you summarily reject it?

 

[MikeMcMann]

Just goes on to show how shallow your notion of society is.

And yours shows how interventionist your notion of society is.

As an independent adult I much prefer mine.

 

[Kframe]

Your boy leaves to the store and your boys girl comes out looking like this and says fuck me before he comes back. You aint hitting it?

Then your boy comes home and shoots you both.. Deservedly so.

 

[Kframe]

100% true story.

Interesting life. Fast bikes. Faster cars. New girl every week. No legally binding contracts for half my shit.

This is what you keep missing Theoutlfow. Marriage fucks you over if she decides she likes someone else's dick better, or that you are not her type anymore. Boom, instant loss of half your shit. I mean, given that divorce is crazy common now, why would anyone ever enter into a LTR? You cant trust her. I mean, most women put out lots of sex before marriage/ltr, then the moment you lock yourself down, the sex stops. Congratulations, you are screwed as now you have a contract that gives her half your shit when you ditch her.. Or the girl goes from nice to bitch in 0 seconds flat, or as BBSB says, decides your SMV is not upto par. Make fun of him all you want, but SMV is real. Women will trade you up in a fuckin moment for a better option.

I mean just google stories from married women that had good relationships, and loved their husbands(by their own words) and yet cheated. Shit like they just couldn't deny the sexual chemistry or other such selfish bullshit. Why subject yourself to it.

I'm in it, and soon as my ducks are in a row, I'm divorcing mine. Then I am gonna focus on me, and making myself the best version of me I can. Oh and lots of sex, and no bullshit emotional attachments that serve no other purpose but to fuck you over.

 

[lesnarsneedle]

This is what you keep missing Theoutlfow. Marriage fucks you over if she decides she likes someone else's dick better, or that you are not her type anymore. Boom, instant loss of half your shit. I mean, given that divorce is crazy common now, why would anyone ever enter into a LTR? You cant trust her. I mean, most women put out lots of sex before marriage/ltr, then the moment you lock yourself down, the sex stops. Congratulations, you are screwed as now you have a contract that gives her half your shit when you ditch her.. Or the girl goes from nice to bitch in 0 seconds flat, or as BBSB says, decides your SMV is not upto par. Make fun of him all you want, but SMV is real. Women will trade you up in a fuckin moment for a better option.

I mean just google stories from married women that had good relationships, and loved their husbands(by their own words) and yet cheated. Shit like they just couldn't deny the sexual chemistry or other such selfish bullshit. Why subject yourself to it.

I'm in it, and soon as my ducks are in a row, I'm divorcing mine. Then I am gonna focus on me, and making myself the best version of me I can. Oh and lots of sex, and no bullshit emotional attachments that serve no other purpose but to fuck you over.

Some know precisely what you're talking about
@Mike90

Some will never understand until it's too late
@The Outflow @mooner100 @tramendous @MysticNinjaJay @koolinkunming @GearSolidMetal @AmbivalenceKing

 

[Harmonica]

And yours shows how interventionist your notion of society is.

As an independent adult I much prefer mine.

Prefer it all you want. It serves nothing but your selfish, immature impulses.

 

[tramendous]

Some know precisely what you're talking about
@Mike90

Some will never understand until it's too late
@The Outflow @mooner100 @tramendous @MysticNinjaJay @koolinkunming @GearSolidMetal @AmbivalenceKing

bro stop mentioning me if its not about one of my quotes directly. you want to paint me as someone who thinks women aren't capable of being bitches or cunts but thats not true.

 

[Harmonica]

bro stop mentioning me if its not about one of my quotes directly. you want to paint me as someone who thinks women aren't capable of being bitches or cunts but thats not true.

Ignore the kid. He's got a pathological need for attention. This usually happens when parents spent most of their time arguing about their shitty marriage, disregarding the children completely in the process.

 

[MedicineDog]

If you wouldn't want someone to bang your spouse, you shouldn't bang another's spouse. Temptation is a bitch though..